Men owe their women Org*sm? (wife, how to, partner, different)
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I had been wondering about this for sometime now and thought I would post my doubt here.
Do you feel that men "owe" their women orgasm? I think they do because of the reason:
Women work as hard (or even more in many cases). At the end of day when they come to bed, it is the basic need they want men to satisfy and most women get away with faking it. Mostly because it is not done the way it should have been done...either too fast/too slow, no stimulation/no romance etc....but of course men do 'come'.
Ladies and gentlemen, I want to know your views on this...
Too many men look at a woman's orgasm as a race to the finish line. Something they have to reach, not realizing that the fun is in the journey. Know your partner...stimulate their MIND and their body...get with her rhythm and you'll know what buttons to push if you're paying attention. The orgasm will come (no pun intended), but don't be so mechanical as though reading from a manual...and don't depend on porn as a "how to" instructional video. Everyone has something different that does it for them...one size (and method) does not fit all.
Too many men look at a woman's orgasm as a race to the finish line. Something they have to reach, not realizing that the fun is in the journey. Know your partner...stimulate their MIND and their body...get with her rhythm and you'll know what buttons to push if you're paying attention. The orgasm will come (no pun intended), but don't be so mechanical as though reading from a manual...and don't depend on porn as a "how to" instructional video. Everyone has something different that does it for them...one size (and method) does not fit all.
Agreed Coolhand. But do you think that men "owe" women an orgasm? Thank God women can fake Orgasm...if she wants to get over with it. And men of course have to come when they started. how fair is this?
Well I don't think a guy should leave his partner hanging. I don't look at it as owed, perhaps "fairplay" would be a better term? It depends on the woman too, if she's not getting off, then she needs to "guide" her man to the Promised Land, or find another shepherd.
I think 'owe' is too strong of a word because that makes the entire act sound like a transaction of service, but I would want that of my wife. It's half the fun, you know?
I don't think "owe" is the right word - it's too demanding. But I do think a healthy sexual relationship requires both partners to be able to reach orgasm, at least most of the time.
I don't think "owe" is the right word - it's too demanding. But I do think a healthy sexual relationship requires both partners to be able to reach orgasm, at least most of the time.
Emmm....I used the word 'owe' because don't men feel that they deserve to reach orgasm when they start?
Yeah, throw the word "owe" out of there.... I think most men worth their weight will at least make a concerted effort to get their partner "there", EVEN AFTER HE ALREADY HAS....
My ex (from eons ago) used to not be too concerned whether she did or didn't. She seemed much more into the act itself and if she did, she did I guess..... My wife of 10 years more or less demands that she has one before we're done and gets pretty angry if she doesn't...
Honestly it's been a tough transition where I don't understand which is "typical" of most females....
It's also been tough because there's a TON of added pressure on every third thursday after a blue moon in the year of the bear when we DO actually have sex....
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