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WEll Thank I am glad you all find it so amusing. To the people who really do want to try and help - we went out for the day today.....I have to say, things went anything but smooth, but I supose that is normal in the begining. He has gotten a new are and he also agress that moving back in with me would not feel right to him either. Most of my family it telling us we will never be able to fix things if we are not living together. They dont seem to understand why a therapist would tell two married people to live apart. They think she is a quack. But both of us feel it is for the best right now. I feel that if things are going to work, they will 0ne way or another.
WEll Thank I am glad you all find it so amusing. To the people who really do want to try and help - we went out for the day today.....I have to say, things went anything but smooth, but I supose that is normal in the begining. He has gotten a new are and he also agress that moving back in with me would not feel right to him either. Most of my family it telling us we will never be able to fix things if we are not living together. They dont seem to understand why a therapist would tell two married people to live apart. They think she is a quack. But both of us feel it is for the best right now. I feel that if things are going to work, they will 0ne way or another.
I've never done this before, but I couldn't resisit.
WEll Thank I am glad you all find it so amusing. To the people who really do want to try and help - we went out for the day today.....I have to say, things went anything but smooth, but I supose that is normal in the begining. He has gotten a new are and he also agress that moving back in with me would not feel right to him either. Most of my family it telling us we will never be able to fix things if we are not living together. They dont seem to understand why a therapist would tell two married people to live apart. They think she is a quack. But both of us feel it is for the best right now. I feel that if things are going to work, they will 0ne way or another.
A word of advice - DO NOT involve your extended families in this situation any more!!! They know too much already and it will only complicate the situation. You should stop talking to everyone except your therapist, your best friend and your husband.
A word of advice - DO NOT involve your extended families in this situation any more!!! They know too much already and it will only complicate the situation. You should stop talking to everyone except your therapist, your best friend and your husband.
Super advice...the family being involved is trouble...if sides are taken and you decide to work it out with your husband there will be tension that could have been avoided...
A word of advice - DO NOT involve your extended families in this situation any more!!! They know too much already and it will only complicate the situation. You should stop talking to everyone except your therapist, your best friend and your husband.
good advice...agree totally adding
you put them all in a position that they have to choose sides...
I agree with you all totally on this, the only problem is they keep butting in. This morning my husband and I had a big falling out and he said he is all done, he feels I am only doing the therepy thing to make us both feel better and he sick of it he says it is preventing him from moving on and he thinks it is just delaying what is bound to happen. He says he knows me and he knows deep down I am all done with this marriage. Maybe he is right. All I know is I wanted to at least try. He said its a waste and he will not attend the session next week.
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I agree with you all totally on this, the only problem is they keep butting in. This morning my husband and I had a big falling out and he said he is all done, he feels I am only doing the therepy thing to make us both feel better and he sick of it he says it is preventing him from moving on and he thinks it is just delaying what is bound to happen. He says he knows me and he knows deep down I am all done with this marriage. Maybe he is right. All I know is I wanted to at least try. He said its a waste and he will not attend the session next week.
Well, how d'ya like dem apples? Sounds like he won't have as tough a time moving on as you thought.
i KNOW I AM SO SHOCKED do you think this is for good
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