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Old 11-06-2008, 09:52 PM
 
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I know this is PG-13 so I'll keep it that way...

So my gf of several years, thinking about getting married. She has a fantasy of me watching her with another man.

I love her a lot and want her to be happy, but I'm worried what this will do to us, like me being jealous or her liking him in the end.

Does anyone have experience here?

 
Old 11-06-2008, 09:55 PM
 
Location: southern california
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narcissts like to be worshiped by more than 1.
they often like former boyfriends to hang around. entournage. its empowering.
the reverse does not work for them at all. for the narcisst its not about being fair
or right or wrong, it about getting your needs met.
see interview with a vampire, brad pitt and tom cruise.
 
Old 11-06-2008, 09:56 PM
 
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^ Interesting point Huckleberry. She sounds evil imo.
 
Old 11-06-2008, 09:56 PM
 
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Why don't you run a search on google for cuckolding?
 
Old 11-06-2008, 10:04 PM
 
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what's your point? It is sleazy.

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Why don't you run a search on google for cuckolding?
 
Old 11-06-2008, 10:04 PM
 
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I know what cuckolding is, but I want to know about consequences for my relationship.
 
Old 11-06-2008, 10:06 PM
 
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selfishness and vanity is now a need???
Consider me confused. Then again narcissists are very confusing and confused themselves.


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Originally Posted by Huckleberry3911948 View Post
narcissts like to be worshiped by more than 1.
they often like former boyfriends to hang around. entournage. its empowering.
the reverse does not work for them at all. for the narcisst its not about being fair
or right or wrong, it about getting your needs met.
see interview with a vampire, brad pitt and tom cruise.
 
Old 11-06-2008, 10:06 PM
 
Location: South Carolina
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Likely it will break it.

If you feel that way just thinking about it, then its not a good idea, and will only cause problems in the future.
Why deal with drama later on if you can prevent it now?
 
Old 11-06-2008, 10:07 PM
 
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Can he do your taxes and fix your car, because that might sweeten the pot
 
Old 11-06-2008, 10:13 PM
 
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can he also mow the grass and pay rent?

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Can he do your taxes and fix your car, because that might sweeten the pot
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