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Well... personally I think women have a harder time letting things go than men do. Men can have a fist fight and the next day they are friends. Women hold grudges. Women also have the tendency to be "jealous" of their friends (for whatever reasons) more than men do and women are more likely to be petty. BTW, I'm speaking in general. Not all women are like this of course but... a lot of women seem to fall into this category.
I have very little to say about my own gender except for the fact that I have observed in other women that loyalty is a bit less than males are with their own gender. I do not trust the women that are catty and have issues with other women. If a woman cannot get along with another woman, there is something seriously going on with the woman who cannot gel.
Men have fought and spilt their blood for their countries for eons.
Men have built the roads with their bare hands and sweat
Men have come up with the cures
Men have forged the growth of industry
and every man humble or great
did it for a woman
sorry but I have trouble bashing my own gender because I just see guys as innocent boys trying to please women
I see women as just little girls who want to feel pretty and special
it's just a liiiitle bit immature, there is a lot of terrible sexist propaganda surrounding us all these days.
You help yourself and everyone by choosing how to react
if you see something that you feel is hurtful you canchoose how to react
well... Personally i think women have a harder time letting things go than men do. Men can have a fist fight and the next day they are friends. Women hold grudges.
Too many men pursue sex simply for conquest purposes without considering the emotional attachment that women more often associate with sex. This "thrill of the hunt" leads many men to be unjustifiably unfaithful. Too many men dismiss women's intelligence and resourcefulness, leading men to be chauvinistic. But perhaps most of all, too many men are immature.
What does that say about women who are willing to spread their legs for men who are players. They are no morally better either. It takes two to tango.
I've seen it! Two guys duke it out and the next day it's like it didn't even happen! Women... no way... once you are on the "shyt" list it's over...
You know, up through my 20s, I used to think that it was a strong quality in me to "shut out" my friends who have betrayed me in some shape, way or form. Ever since I got married, I now see it as a character flaw. If I never forgave my husband for the sh*t he's done, we would've been divorced very early on!! Friendships work a lot like marriage, I think. You gotta roll with the good and the bad.
Too sensitive, stays longer than she should, makes excuses for poor, selfish and rude behavior in lieu of being honest and voicing the truth about what is being thought !
If a woman cannot get along with another woman, there is something seriously going on with the woman who cannot gel.
I've always thought that, too. I've always thought it indicated that the person has trouble with men, and so much so that she views just about every woman she meets as some kind of threat. Deep-seated insecurities. I hate to get caught in the middle when there's one chick who's really attractive, and then another who thinks herself to be much less attractive, and so she hates the other woman just for the way she looks, despite how nice and friendly she might be.
It's usually different for me. If I act like I don't want to be around an attractive woman, it's probably because I'm attracted to her and trying really hard not to make a fool of myself. Somehow, it makes it worse if that woman assumes I'm straight. Anyway, I'm getting OT.
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