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Old 12-14-2008, 02:00 PM
 
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My younger sister is now with a guy that was interested in me back in Aug. (friend of a friend that was getting married) but I wasn't interested in him and I let him know. It's strange because he would ask my sister and other friends about me at the wedding rehearsals and she was like c'mon give him a chance..They've been dating since Sept. and my parents even adore the guy but I just find the whole thing weird..

I'm not mad per say.. but when I mentioned it to my friends they were disgusted.
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Old 12-14-2008, 02:12 PM
 
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He's working his way to you from the inside.
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Old 12-14-2008, 02:18 PM
 
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Mr.Cat I'm a pretty straightforward person so there's no way that's happening but I do see him around ALOT more often..
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Old 12-14-2008, 02:19 PM
 
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Either that or it's a compliment. Sometimes people are attracted to siblings. Obviously there's something attractive about the two of you that he wants more of.

I know I've dated people who were brothers - but not sequentially. My grandmother married her husband's brother after her original husband passed away. They were married for 15 years, till he also died.

Nothing wrong with it as long as he's faithful and honest to the one he's dating.
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Old 12-14-2008, 02:25 PM
 
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I can see what you mean but my sister and I look nothing alike, our personalities are very different too. What makes it even weirder is how I found out too, it was from an outside source. She never mentioned it to me or anything.
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Old 12-14-2008, 02:32 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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Maybe she is a little...embarrassed?
Hey, if he is a good guy, and your parents seem to like him, whats the big deal? Just because you were not interested in him, does not mean that your sister isn`t. Wish them both well, and blow the rest off!
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Old 12-14-2008, 02:52 PM
 
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What WOULD be weird is if you starting dating him after your sister breaks up with him.
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Old 12-14-2008, 06:39 PM
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Location: Chester County, Tennessee
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You know the old saying is, "If the big sister won't do it then the little sister will!"
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Old 12-14-2008, 06:42 PM
 
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My younger sister is now with a guy that was interested in me back in Aug. (friend of a friend that was getting married) but I wasn't interested in him and I let him know. It's strange because he would ask my sister and other friends about me at the wedding rehearsals and she was like c'mon give him a chance..They've been dating since Sept. and my parents even adore the guy but I just find the whole thing weird..

I'm not mad per say.. but when I mentioned it to my friends they were disgusted.
It would only be weird IF you had been interested in him - but you never were. Since you never gave him the time of day, he had time to notice your sister, there is nothing wrong or weird about that to me at all.
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Old 12-14-2008, 07:00 PM
 
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<shrug> doesnt seem wierd at all. You guys didn't even date.
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