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Here's the deal. Stop looking. Soon after you stop hunting for her and live a normal life out in the community, she'll wander into your life, as if by magic.
Here's the deal. Stop looking. Soon after you stop hunting for her and live a normal life out in the community, she'll wander into your life, as if by magic.
Women may believe in "chick flicks" but I'd be surprised if many guys do. I've never heard of this happening to a guy.
However, there is a point where a guy might stop banging his head against the wall. Being single is not the end of the world. Get your life in order and find some interests.
Also, talk to a few divorced guys. Marriage is not a bowl of cherries. Learn how to avoid the pitfalls.
However, you may then get lucky and actually find somebody. However, don't believe in magic or inevitability. Every decade, a higher percentage of men never marry. There are a lot of obstacles and barriers now days.
Worse, I already found the right guy, lost my chance with him, and worry I'll never find anyone I'll love as much. Worry that I'll have to settle or be alone for the rest of my life. Secretly scared to death most of the time about this. I know there are so many women who are in their 40s, 50s, 60s, 70s, etc that are either alone after divorce or death of spouse or never married and keep themselves busy, traveling, volunteering, going out with friends, concentrating on career, etc. I just am not one of those women who is going to be happy being alone and not having anyone to share life with. I can keep myself busy too, but at the end of the day, going home alone and to bed by myself, makes me sad, and no amount of activities and friends are going to erase that.
I was never really alone in life. It wasn't because I couldn't be alone; it was just the way things worked out. At one point I was alone and didn't know what to do with myself. I went out and socialized, but met all kinds of toxic people. Now, I welcome being alone and don't worry about not finding "the one". When I think of my future, I see myself traveling, living in a home in the mountains, sitting on the porch in an Adirondack chair, reading a book with just my dog next to me. I may get lonely down the road, but right now it's fine.
Women may believe in "chick flicks" but I'd be surprised if many guys do. I've never heard of this happening to a guy.
However, there is a point where a guy might stop banging his head against the wall. Being single is not the end of the world. Get your life in order and find some interests.
Also, talk to a few divorced guys. Marriage is not a bowl of cherries. Learn how to avoid the pitfalls.
However, you may then get lucky and actually find somebody. However, don't believe in magic or inevitability. Every decade, a higher percentage of men never marry. There are a lot of obstacles and barriers now days.
Yes, but that's because they choose not to marry. My advice is more oriented to guys who are looking for a mate with the intensity of a neanderthal bringing a wooly mammoth back to the cave. It smacks of desperation and is a massive turnoff for women. As in, "What's wrong with this guy that he can't find somebody? There must be a flaw somewhere."
Hello,
How are you? I saw your profile today at (www.city-data.com)and feel like contacting you.
I feel we may become matches (tessy_4000kuru@yahoo.com ) is my contact. Kindly make a contact if you are interested, so that i can send you my picture for you to know who iam meanwhile my name is Tessy. I will appreciate it if you give a good responds.Thanks and remain blessed.
(Remember the distance,color or age does not matter but love matters alot in life)
have a nice day.
your in love tessy kuru.
My advice is more oriented to guys who are looking for a mate with the intensity of a neanderthal bringing a wooly mammoth back to the cave.
A guy with Neanderthal genes bust really have it tough. Just having too many European peasant genes make it very difficult.
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