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me too--plus at the time i was on the rebound---not able to clearly see what i was marrying nor what kind of family i was dealing with(they could have used an exorcist)
me too--plus at the time i was on the rebound---not able to clearly see what i was marrying nor what kind of family i was dealing with(they could have used an exorcist)
Hilarious!
Nice to hear someone else has the same shoes.
I agree with Mr. Cat too.
I think a person should get to know a person from a distant. Ask people what they think of them. What they are like as a person. You know, those sort of questions. Then watch how she treats people, kids and pets.
If she talks bad about people...she WILL talk bad about you.
When things get serious, meet the parents and family. If you cannot stand them....you better think seriously about what you are getting into. They will never leave. You will see them every holiday and more. Do you want that?
Watch how her mom and dad treat each other. Are they still married. If not ask why. Find out everything. If she don't know...ask the mom or the dad each one their side of the divorcing. If you are uncomfortable tough! They have the right to tell you if you are coming into that family. Alot of her life was affected by this divorce and it will directly relate to your marriage.
3-5 years! 1 watching...next 1-2 years dating. The next 2 years wondering if you can ever live with this forever.
My first marriage..we were HS sweethearts. I was 15 he was 16..when we started dating. We got married when I was 21. With my last we were married a year after we met but we married 6 months after we officially started dating.
How long did you date your spouse before getting married?
Pretty simple poll - also, what's the maximum time a person should wait?
If you dated your spouse on and off before marrying him / her, then include only the time leading up to the marriage.
I think we dated for about 3-4 years before getting married.
There is no maximum time you should wait. If you love the person, and youre happy with the relationship, you should never ever ever put a date or time limit as to when you should get married. Just do what you think is right.
We met Dec 9, 1974, married Nov.8, 1975. We were both 21. I think you know deep down how you really feel about a person.
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