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Old 02-08-2009, 01:31 PM
 
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Have any of you ever been attracted to your SO's friend?

Was it mutual, or did you feel it was?

Were there other factors involved, like trouble in your relationship?

What, if anything, did you do about it?
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Old 02-08-2009, 01:35 PM
 
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You know, in any strong relationship between couples, I think that there's always at least one strong diagonal relationship. That doesn't mean you act on it.
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Old 02-08-2009, 01:37 PM
 
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You know, in any strong relationship between couples, I think that there's always at least one strong diagonal relationship. That doesn't mean you act on it.
That's kind of where I lean as well. If you spend enough time with a person, the likelihood of attraction increases.
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Old 02-08-2009, 01:47 PM
 
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That's kind of where I lean as well. If you spend enough time with a person, the likelihood of attraction increases.
Exactly. My wife has a couple of friends that I find very attractive, and I can easily talk to a great length. However, I always watch what I say and try to make sure that nothing I say steps over the line.
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Old 02-08-2009, 02:10 PM
 
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Exactly. We all know how to act, I hope?
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Old 02-08-2009, 02:27 PM
 
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Yep. I'm married, not buried, as some other poster nicely put it.
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Old 02-08-2009, 04:55 PM
 
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The wife's co-workers at her branch, all of them. I mean all of them are hot.
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Old 02-08-2009, 05:12 PM
 
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Have any of you ever been attracted to your SO's friend?

Was it mutual, or did you feel it was?

Were there other factors involved, like trouble in your relationship?

What, if anything, did you do about it?
--My S.O. does have some friends who are very attractive, but that's as far as it goes for me.

--As for the feeling being mutual and if any of her friends are attracted to me....I have no idea what they may think about me.

--I've done nothing about it. I just acknowledge that they are good-looking, etc....then let it go at that. No dirty thoughts or actions have resulted.....
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