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If he has no legal claim to your apartment then that clears up what could be a huge problem.
You can get a restraining order without a lawyer. Go down to the courthouse and ask. Be prepared to write down all the violent things he has done to you. Then the order has to be served on him.
Personally I would change the locks, box up all his stuff and leave it outside with a copy of the restraining order be done with it. No need to shout about what you both already know has occurred.
This thread should be under relationships....not coastal North Carolina.
Thank you, I totally agree. Wish I could help this person, but I think many great suggestions have been offered. It's not that we don't care, we do, but this forum is Coastal North Carolina, and we are asking the moderators to pleez advise poster to seek help as soon as possible, and possibly consider re-posting in the relationship category, or another forum, that could address the issues. My heart truly goes out to her/him, and I am so sorry this is taking place, please do take the advice of those who have responded to your plight.
I am trying not to get my boyfriends name on a lease. what do I do? We are relocating and he said he isn't not going to drive himself crazy looking for a job. This isn't fair at all. I am not going to support a guy. What do I do?
I am trying not to get my boyfriends name on a lease. what do I do? We are relocating and he said he isn't not going to drive himself crazy looking for a job. This isn't fair at all. I am not going to support a guy. What do I do?
We are relocating and he said he isn't not going to drive himself crazy looking for a job.
This isn't fair at all. I am not going to support a guy. What do I do?
Kick him to the curb and start over.
Limit yourself to guys with jobs.
At the practical level... pack YOUR stuff separately.
Then put it on a separate truck.
Then go somewhere he isn't.
Thank you guys for telling me what I already know. Sometimes reality has to slap you in the face. Mr. Rational, thank you for giving me a smile on my face with the video...LOL I needed to laugh. I can't believe I am facing this. We have been together for over 4 years and now he is saying he won't "kill himself to get a job." WTH?
What some others have suggested, make sure you have a male friend / family member to have your back....do not attempt this without some sort of back up, and if you feel this may get real messy, put the PD on alert......be thankful you don't have a child involved with this person
I am trying not to get my boyfriends name on a lease. what do I do? We are relocating and he said he isn't not going to drive himself crazy looking for a job. This isn't fair at all. I am not going to support a guy. What do I do?
1. Dump him and find a new guy.
2. Learn how to start a new thread. People on here don't understand the concept of looking at the dates of threads, so they will only read the original post, answer that, and not answer your question.
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Good luck
