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Old 04-05-2007, 03:29 PM
 
Location: Old Town Alexandria
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Do you sound like a bad person? No, you sound like someone who seems to have a piece of $h1t for a husband.
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exactly.
Yorkie he is doing this to f--- you up. Dump him immediately.

sunny

 
Old 04-05-2007, 03:41 PM
 
Location: Twin Cities
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Yorkie,

Here is a link that I just received from one of the legal assistants at the firm. She recommended you do your homework, read this site before moving out of state. IMO something is smelling fishy...and it's not lutefisk!

http://www.divorcesupport.com/divorc...-Laws-588.html
 
Old 04-05-2007, 03:44 PM
 
Location: Journey's End
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I am so with you on this smell!



[quote=Hoosier_guy;540867] IMO something is smelling fishy...and it's not lutefisk!
 
Old 04-05-2007, 07:00 PM
 
Location: Colorado
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I don't have an attorney yet, it is very hard to get away, with out him throwing a bunch of questions at me.
He is one of these people that it takes him forever to make up his mind, he says one thing and once your hopes are up he crashes them down. I really wonder what he is thinking, I told him we should sell this place first and find something out there, and that way he could stay with his son, better deal for me.
It makes no sense to rent out there, and then wait and sell this house later, I plan on checking into them sites after he goes to bed.
My daughter and I will be getting some packing in this weekend, do know where to put it all yet, but we need to get started. I got until June to get things wrapped up, so I am trying to keep an open mind and tread slowly, he is not on to anything, and I don't want to rush things and then start making mistakes.
You all have been a great help with many things to look into, and I am very greatful for that, thanks for being my friends, and hanging in there with me.
I will keep checking on here as I can, so that he does not know what I am doing. Thanks from the bottom of my heart!!!!!! Yorkie
 
Old 04-05-2007, 08:38 PM
 
Location: Old Town Alexandria
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http://www.soulselfhelp.on.ca/verbalabuse.html

Yorkie- please read this site. Psychological abuse is also included. Is your name on the deed to that house?- do NOT sell or sign anything until you talk to a lawyer. You are being bullied by this loser. Some lawyers will help you over the phone if you cant afford a retainer. If Minnesota is equitable distribution you are entitled to part of the house.
 
Old 04-05-2007, 08:50 PM
 
Location: Colorado
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My name is on the house along with his, so I hope this is enough to get me a cut in it. Let me know. Yorkie
 
Old 04-05-2007, 08:53 PM
 
Location: Where the real happy cows reside!
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I really have no great words of wisdom for you Yorkie and what you're going through. I just want to wish you all the best and to stay strong.
 
Old 04-05-2007, 09:02 PM
 
Location: Old Town Alexandria
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I cant give legal advice but worked as a paralegal- in most states if you are on the deed you are entitled to 1/2. Get the copy off the public records. It is illegal for him to take the money. Are you selling right now? make sure you talk w/a lawyer. We are concerned for you- you have friends here!!.

sunny
 
Old 04-05-2007, 09:09 PM
 
Location: Tucson, AZ
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Quote:
Originally Posted by sunnyhelena View Post
I cant give legal advice but worked as a paralegal- in most states if you are on the deed you are entitled to 1/2. Get the copy off the public records. It is illegal for him to take the money. Are you selling right now? make sure you talk w/a lawyer. We are concerned for you- you have friends here!!.

sunny
I'm not sure about Yorkie's state, but in NJ, any property/assets acquired during the course of the marriage is subject to equitable distribution, regardless of whose names are on which documents.
 
Old 04-05-2007, 09:19 PM
 
Location: Old Town Alexandria
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yes- thats sort of what I meant. especially if she paid into the mortgage etc. In NY they have a really strange law- you still have to have "grounds" for divorce- and the other spouse can contest it.
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