Can you tell how much someone is interested in you by phone behavior?

[Tzaphkiel]

Originally Posted by oregonwana_b

Yes, I know these type. What they are doing is called mind games played on you because he is 'just not that into you'. As soon as I see even one of these trying to be played out, I'm gone, like a bat outta h*ll. You deserve better!

yeah, that's the conclusion i came to, also, and stopped participating in that scenario. Someone described it as not being on their A list, not even being on their B list, but waaaaay down on the C list.

[stan4]

I think texting is a lot more low pressure on both ends, as well.
The person trying to demonstrate interested does not have to be immediately on the spot and stutter or stammer out of nervousness.
The person receiving the text is more able to reciprocate at their leisure or not at all.
In comparison, a phone call can be very 'all or nothing.'

[msboom]

So it's a good sign if you text someone and they ask to call you?

[oregonwana_b]

Originally Posted by stan4

I think texting is a lot more low pressure on both ends, as well.
The person trying to demonstrate interested does not have to be immediately on the spot and stutter or stammer out of nervousness.
The person receiving the text is more able to reciprocate at their leisure or not at all.
In comparison, a phone call can be very 'all or nothing.'

True. This is very true.

[stan4]

Originally Posted by msboom

So it's a good sign if you text someone and they ask to call you?

I would say yes. It's escalation.