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Old 05-02-2009, 09:50 PM
 
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So I've known this one guy for about 3 years, hes one of my older brothers friends and we worked together. We always playfully firted back and forth and just recently I ran into him when he came into my work. He lives 3 hours away from me and I was going down there to go to a concert so I decided to crash at his place. He was telling me how he always had a thing for me and we both ended up getting really drunk and we had sex. After that he kept texting me saying that we have to hang out again and that he really wants to see me. One weekend I didnt have anything going on so I called him and ended up going down there. We hung out and went to a sports bar and I got really drunk (which I didnt want to do because I'm not a big drinker) and we had sex again. We usually talked a couple of times a day and now he talks to me once a day, if that. I'm not the kind of girl whos just a booty call. He has a lot of friends that are girls..so I'm wondering if he does this thing all the time. Is he a player who just wanted a booty call or does he really like me?
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Old 05-02-2009, 09:52 PM
 
Location: Fort Worth, Texas
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Sounds like a booty call to me.
He hasn't made any effort to come to your place?
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Old 05-02-2009, 09:52 PM
 
Location: Naptowne, Alaska
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Sounds complicated. Quit drinking so much.
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Old 05-02-2009, 09:54 PM
 
Location: Midwest
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Sounds complicated. Quit drinking so much.

Ditto.

Quit drinking and quit hanging out with drunks.

Otherwise you'll keep having these types of incidents.
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Old 05-02-2009, 10:05 PM
 
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Unless he's telling you straight up that he likes you as a possible girlfriend, chances are he just likes how it all worked out for him.
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Old 05-02-2009, 11:03 PM
 
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hahahahahah sounds like what I do.

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I'm not the kind of girl whos just a booty call.
uhh, yes you are.

I tell guys all the time, if you don't get laid on the first date, don't bother talking to her again. If you do get laid try and make her your booty call.

You are a shining example of why this method works

It is also important to note the fact that she has an excuse for why she had sex. Women absolutely love having no consequence sex. There are tons of girls out there JUST LIKE YOU. Guys just have to find them and make it happen. Guys, seriously, don't bother with prudes or girls who don't put out.

But seriously, don't take it personal. You got drunk, you had a good time who cares. It is your private personal life. If you like having sex with the guy then by all means continue. If you don't want to be a booty call then stop seeing him. He probably has other girls lined up who are more than happy to have sex with him.
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Old 05-02-2009, 11:11 PM
 
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Yes. And that scenario is common unfortunately.
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Old 05-02-2009, 11:13 PM
 
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Seriously, why do you have to be so insensitive. Do you have lady friends or females in your life that you see as caring , special, and good people?

I'm wondering if you've ever had a connection like that with a woman.

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hahahahahah sounds like what I do.

uhh, yes you are.

I tell guys all the time, if you don't get laid on the first date, don't bother talking to her again. If you do get laid try and make her your booty call.

You are a shining example of why this method works

It is also important to note the fact that she has an excuse for why she had sex. Women absolutely love having no consequence sex. There are tons of girls out there JUST LIKE YOU. Guys just have to find them and make it happen. Guys, seriously, don't bother with prudes or girls who don't put out.

But seriously, don't take it personal. You got drunk, you had a good time who cares. It is your private personal life. If you like having sex with the guy then by all means continue. If you don't want to be a booty call then stop seeing him. He probably has other girls lined up who are more than happy to have sex with him.
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Old 05-02-2009, 11:16 PM
 
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Do you have lady friends or females in your life that you see as caring , special, and good people?
Yes, but I don't have sex with them. Major difference.

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Seriously, why do you have to be so insensitive.
You have to be insensitive if you don't want to get hurt out there. Expressing emotions and feelings is a sign of weakness IMO at least. Also women aren't attracted to crap like that (doesn't matter what women say, their actions speak louder than words).

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Yes. And that scenario is common unfortunately.
Indeed Unfortunately? What do you mean. It is good fun!
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Old 05-02-2009, 11:19 PM
 
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Does anybody have any other opinions on his comment???

Agree or disagree?

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You have to be insensitive if you don't want to get hurt out there. Expressing emotions and feelings is a sign of weakness IMO at least. Also women aren't attracted to crap like that (doesn't matter what women say, their actions speak louder than words).



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