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But he wouldn't have been able to betray and break the wife's trust, had the Other Woman turned him down flat. Sure, he might've just moved on to the next likely target, but what if she had the backbone and decency to turn him down, too?
The wife may have a more personal basis for anger and resentment toward the husband, but I still stand by my opinion and statement that once the Other Woman becomes aware the man is married and still chooses to have a relationship with him, she's every bit as guilty as he is for the affair and, if it continues, for the eventual destruction of a marriage and family.
Well, I can't change your opinion obviously. Next!
Say your husband promises you $1000.00 for a Spring vacation. When Spring comes along, the money is gone. You ask him where it's at and he tells you that he spent it with his buddies last weekend. Who are you going to blame for the money loss? Your husband or his buddies? By the way, his buddies enjoyed every last dime your husband gave them. Who would you blame?
No relevance. Your husband is the one that spent it. His buddies didn't take the money out of his pocket and blow it. His buddies brought their own money.
The woman on the other hand, knows the other guy is married. She is obligated not to have an affair with him. She is party to adultery.
I'd say there's a pretty good chance the women defending the woman in this case(shocking I know ) were mistresses themselves. The woman is equally at fault. There's no getting around it.
Like I said, from a LEGAL viewpoint she might be found guilty, but from a personal viewpoint, I think she is not EQUALLY guilty, since she didn't promise anything. Karmically, though, I do believe she would be punished.
I don't get this whole "karma" thing that keeps being brought up, so maybe someone can explain it to me. Are you saying that if someone does something wrong, eventually something bad will happen to them because of "karma"? If that's the case, is the spouse who's being cheated on also maybe receiving a dose of "karma" for something wrong that they did? Bad things happen to both good and bad people, so I just don't understand where "karma" comes into play. I guess I just don't really believe that what goes around always comes around. Maybe it will, maybe it won't.
I don't get this whole "karma" thing that keeps being brought up, so maybe someone can explain it to me. Are you saying that if someone does something wrong, eventually something bad will happen to them because of "karma"? If that's the case, is the spouse who's being cheated on also maybe receiving a dose of "karma" for something wrong that they did? Bad things happen to both good and bad people, so I just don't understand where "karma" comes into play. I guess I just don't really believe that what goes around always comes around. Maybe it will, maybe it won't.
Yeah they'll get their Karma in the form of crabs.
No relevance. Your husband is the one that spent it. His buddies didn't take the money out of his pocket and blow it. His buddies brought their own money.
The woman on the other hand, knows the other guy is married. She is obligated not to have an affair with him. She is party to adultery.
You changed my story. The husband spent $1000 on his buddies. His buddies were lowlifes who were just along for the ride and didn't spend any of their own money. Your husband is just really generous with his buds. However, his buds did ask him where he got the money since they know he's not rich or anything, and he told them that it was your birthday present. And not one of them said he was out. They blew his money and YOUR money. Who is at fault here?
He sounds like he could give lessons here on CD to all the guys who need help.
Absolutely!
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Oh, she was married too, but they were living apart so she could carry on this affair. She was invited over for what she thought was a Christmas Party only to discover - oopsy it was an engagement party for my dad and his second wife. Oh, that was priceless and she still stayed with him, so we aren't talking about a bag of brains here.
I see. It makes more sense if she was married.
Is he very good-looking, or just a good BS-er, or both?
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Couldn't have put it better myself.
) were mistresses themselves. The woman is equally at fault. There's no getting around it.
