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Old 05-03-2009, 08:32 PM
 
Location: Texas
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And to think these guys are the ones saying "Why don't I ever get laid?"

Go figure.

You are only going to get sex if she is into you and having a good time. If she doesn't see any possibility of you being around a week or so from now you don't have a chance. Most women like the courtship and want to be entertained by a potential mate. You are basically showing her a glimpse of what the special times are like with you. The sit on the couch dating comes a bit later when you are more interested in digging deeper and seeing if there really is something there.
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Old 05-03-2009, 08:38 PM
 
Location: In my skin
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The setting in my apt is a lot better than being in a crowded and noisey restarunt.
You said nothing about the ambiance. You equate dating with prostitution. Your focus has been on money and how men don't benefit from spending it when it may not be a sure thing. But if it is no different, you'd all be getting laid, wouldn't you? So, which is it?
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Old 05-03-2009, 08:49 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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You said nothing about the ambiance. You equate dating with prostitution. Your focus has been on money and how men don't benefit from spending it when it may not be a sure thing. But if it is no different, you'd all be getting laid, wouldn't you? So, which is it?


Well I'm not a one night stand guy so I'm just saying if I'm going to be spending money then I should be having some kind of light makeout session that would not involve nudity of course.
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Old 05-03-2009, 08:55 PM
 
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Just go dutch on your dates and don't purchase her anything until you get 'super serious' with her.

Charm her, and make her laugh her pants off and then go out dancing. Let the night be fun and exciting. Dating should be fun not some tedious calculus exam.

It's that easy.

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Well I'm not a one night stand guy so I'm just saying if I'm going to be spending money then I should be having some kind of light makeout session that would not involve nudity of course.
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You said nothing about the ambiance. You equate dating with prostitution. Your focus has been on money and how men don't benefit from spending it when it may not be a sure thing. But if it is no different, you'd all be getting laid, wouldn't you? So, which is it?
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Old 05-03-2009, 09:04 PM
 
Location: Hot Springs, AR
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Well I'm not a one night stand guy so I'm just saying if I'm going to be spending money then I should be having some kind of light makeout session that would not involve nudity of course.
What if she doesn't want that? Do you lock her in your apartment until she gives in? Your dating method sounds like you have control issues.
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Old 05-03-2009, 09:08 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Come on now CESpeed. He is splurging on a blockbuster dollar rental, some take out Chinese food, and maybe if she is really hot a bottle of boones farm wine.

He deserves a little necking; don't you think.
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Old 05-03-2009, 09:12 PM
 
Location: In my skin
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Come on now CESpeed. He is splurging on a blockbuster dollar rental, some take out Chinese food, and maybe if she is really hot a bottle of boones farm wine.

He deserves a little necking; don't you think.
Sounds like a hand shake is in order. Not the kind he'd like, I suspect.
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Old 05-03-2009, 09:16 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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What if she doesn't want that? Do you lock her in your apartment until she gives in? Your dating method sounds like you have control issues.
of course not, i'm patient
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Old 05-03-2009, 09:16 PM
 
Location: Texas
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A hand shake. Hhahaha. You would have to make it through the movie playing like a fly swatter to even get to the hand shake.
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Old 05-03-2009, 09:19 PM
FBJ
 
Location: Tall Building down by the river
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Come on now CESpeed. He is splurging on a blockbuster dollar rental, some take out Chinese food, and maybe if she is really hot a bottle of boones farm wine.

He deserves a little necking; don't you think.
actually it's chicken fingers and french fries and a cold glass of ocean orange hawaiian punch and some reruns of Three's Company


lol
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