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I'm not sure who, in their right mind, would go to anyone's home on a first date to "get acquainted". You're asking for trouble, man or woman. I call bullsh*t on that whole scenario.
That's why dating is so risky because as the man how are you benefiting? He pays for this and that and ma not even be intimate. Atleast if a woman is coming to your place you know how the evening is going to end
If you're confident then the risk doesn't seem insurmountable, and men are less adverse to risk than women. However, if you are doubtful of your chances of impressing a woman then having to pay causes much consternation. You might not agree with it in principle but you're willing to accept the risk.
That's not to say all confident men agree to pay, but I do think that many men who complain about paying are simply not very confident with women.
Last edited by Jefetio; 05-03-2009 at 09:26 PM..
Reason: brain fart.
I'm not sure who, in their right mind, would go to anyone's home on a first date to "get acquainted". You're asking for trouble, man or woman. I call bullsh*t on that whole scenario.
I completely agree with this and have learned my lessons.
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Originally Posted by PassTheChocolate
I'm not sure who, in their right mind, would go to anyone's home on a first date to "get acquainted". You're asking for trouble, man or woman. I call bullsh*t on that whole scenario.
LOL. Really? You gonna lock her in and force her to have sex with ya?
Or is this the part where you pay her and instead end up with her big, bald, burly driver. No money and no honey.
if you know which buttons to push, having a woman in your house has a very high chance of ending in sex.
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Originally Posted by CESpeed
How are actually able to convince a woman to have a first date at the home of a man she doesn't know? I question her judgement for that. And yours, too. Women have been known to chop up men.
If the woman is someone you've been acquainted with through friends and spent time with in group settings and have good report with, I don't think it's out of the question. This is known as hooking up.
But if you aren't already acquainted, first date at my house? Can you say AWKWARD!
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Originally Posted by artsyguy
Just go dutch on your dates and don't purchase her anything until you get 'super serious' with her.
Charm her, and make her laugh her pants off and then go out dancing. Let the night be fun and exciting. Dating should be fun not some tedious calculus exam.
And that means I have no clue about the dynamics of dating? Why are you getting all angry about this. You should be thankful and appreciative.
I am not getting angry lol. I'm just wondering why a gay man would be giving advice on how to date women. If I want to lay pipe I ask the plumber for advice, not my hairstylist.
I'm not gay anymore. I've been on friend dates with women and they tell me all this junk about dating and what not. I've tried it out on the people I date and it works fine. It's for your own good not to get so enraged and frustrated. have a nice day
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Originally Posted by Jefetio
I am not getting angry lol. I'm just wondering why a gay man would be giving advice on how to date women. If I want to lay pipe I ask the plumber for advice, not my hairstylist.
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