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Will you be married by the time that the baby is born? Otherwise, is this a Dutch or European thing about him being present at time of delivery? At least it's a sign that his family is fully accepting of you and the baby.
I'm surprised that you as a former stripper would be suddenly bashful at your FIL being in the delivery room.
He is a gyno & would consider it an honor to deliver our baby & yes we'll be long married by then. Preparations on the way, date set etc. And of coure the family is fully accepting. Why not?
And I stated in my original post that I'mno longer a paid stripper so as a result I have no intentions to display my vagina to the world.
Well, I understand since you've been a stripper, you are used to people only looking at your body in a sexual way. But, in this particular instance, you have to remember it really isn't all about you. It's about your baby.
Will you be married by the time that the baby is born? Otherwise, is this a Dutch or European thing about him being present at time of delivery? At least it's a sign that his family is fully accepting of you and the baby.
I'm surprised that you as a former stripper would be suddenly bashful at your FIL being in the delivery room.
Here we go again with the constant reminder of who thebanker was , will it ever end? Geez! I wonder how the responder would feel if she herself is being reminded constantly, over and over again, of what she does (as supposed to what thebanker DID in the past) in her life.
OK, first off, thebanker, I don't care WHO this FIL he is, I don't care how nice he is to you, it's up to YOU, the mother who is about to give birth, to decide WHO gets to be in the same birthing room as you do.
In some parts of the universe, I even know of some families who want to see the whole birthing process VIDEOTAPED up close to the 3 inches to the vagina right until the baby is completely out of the vagina , which means ANYONE can see the whole enchilada. That's just not my cup of tea. Put your foot down.
Here we go again with the constant reminder of who thebanker was , will it ever end? Geez! I wonder how the responder would feel if she herself is being reminded constantly, over and over again, of what she does (as supposed to what thebanker DID in the past) in her life.
OK, first off, thebanker, I don't care WHO this FIL he is, I don't care how nice he is to you, it's up to YOU, the mother who is about to give birth, to decide WHO gets to be in the same birthing room as you do.
In some parts of the universe, I even know of some families who want to see the whole birthing process VIDEOTAPED up close to the 3 inches to the vagina right until the baby is completely out of the vagina , which means ANYONE can see the whole enchilada. That's just not my cup of tea. Put your foot down.
I agree. But then again, I have seen so many videotapings that I thought maybe I'm being too picky? But I cant go along with it as I'm really uncomfortable.
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I gave it
, which means ANYONE can see the whole enchilada. That's just not my cup of tea. Put your foot down.
