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Not true. I've gotten looks before and it's made me feel gross...like a piece of meat. I'm not super attractive by any means, but I didn't consider myself 'lucky' because some dude was looking me up and down.
I'm super happy winter is here, big bulky coats for everyone!
Sorry, I should have said "some" women. That woman who cries herself to sleep every night might agree with me.
All over the place, I see women dressed in a way that makes me think "wow, what ever happened to that HBO show 'Hookers on the Point'? " I mean, I am a heterosexual man, so when ever I see a women looking like she forgot to put on clothes, of course I am going to look at them...but why ohh why do they dress like that, and then have the nerve to get mad when men look at them?
I mean, once, last year, at a park in the middle of New Jersey, thirty miles from the beach, there was a women lying there on her stomach, sunbathing in a thong So, like any man who isn't gay, I craned my neck and looked...and she turned around and screamed at me "what the hell are you looking at!" I just shock my head and thought "your bare butt maybe?"
The thing now is all of these young women in skirts so short that if they fart the back of it will fly up and they'll end up mooning people, who turn with this mean look on their face if they cetch you staring at their legs.
Or the girls in the so-short-they-might-as-well-be-underwear shorts. I mean, you dress like that, and then have the nerve to get mad when a man looks, let alone says something? Granted, I would never say anything to a women (not even if I needed the time, because I'm too shy) but other guys do all the time, and it's sometimes rude comments. But come on, what the heck did you expect?
Don't get me wrong: I don't care if you're running around naked, nothing is an invitation to be touched by anyone. REPEAT IN CASE ANY FEMINAZIS WERE NOT PAYING ATTENTION: Don't get me wrong: I don't care if you're running around naked, nothing is an invitation to be touched by anyone.
However, dressing like a pole dancer while going to the store for a tube of tooth paste is indeed an invitation to have men look at you. I am not a hypocrite either: plenty of men run around without their shirts on if they have six packs, only difference is, they usually don't complain when a women looks.
The worst is the gym. I work out in a large sweat shirt and sweat pants. Yet, I see women all the time doing the arobics class in those super short shorts and little tank tops, going all the way to the ground and lifting their legs up in a "donkey kick" fashion knowing good and well that their rear ends face the rest of the gym and then they look back with this mean look on their faces when the men are looking at them.
What the hell did you think was going to happen? I hear women all the time say "men look at me like a piece of meat at the gym!" Well...if you wear nothing "clothing" that looks like it screams shrink wrap and a tag that says "Veal Chop 12oz, good thru 6/8/09" what do you think they'll look at you like?
There is this one young women who is always at the gym, as in I go there, she's working out, and I leave, and she's still working out. She is a Muslim and wears a head wrap and works out in loose fitting clothes. No one looks at her like a piece of meat. So why is it she can work out covered up and do twice the work out most women do and not have men staring at her? BECAUSE SHE'S NOT DRESSED LIKE A SKANK!
I am not saying you have to wear a burqa or anything, but maybe if you wore long shorts and skirts you would not have men looking at you "like a piece of meat"
It's not the men's fault for looking, it's your fault for showing.
The problem I have with this whole diatribe is it usually doesn't take anything nearly as extreme as wearing a thong to get certain guys acting like fools. Have you ever noticed how 99% of the time, guys leer at women when they're with a group of other guys? Guys on their own just don't do it that much. Honestly, I think a lot of that kind of stuff is just guys trying to show other guys how not gay they are.
The problem I have with this whole diatribe is it usually doesn't take anything nearly as extreme as wearing a thong to get certain guys acting like fools. Have you ever noticed how 99% of the time, guys leer at women when they're with a group of other guys? Guys on their own just don't do it that much. Honestly, I think a lot of that kind of stuff is just guys trying to show other guys how not gay they are.
I do it a lot by myself. I actually do it even more I think. No one to criticize what I am gawking at. Usually nice midsection and hair. Boobs a plus but I'm a hip, butt, legs, thighs, crotch kinda guy more myself
I guess I'm sticking up for not very attractive or obese women in a way too. They would think they died and went to heaven if just ONE guy oogled or checked them out. Don't be such a b**** about it, you are/were lucky!
You know it's nice and tight...even for a man over the hill.
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