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Old 06-10-2009, 07:43 PM
 
Location: Pittsburgh's 'EAST SIDE'
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Arrow DOUBLE STANDARDS in male/female relationships

Name some double standards that make you raise an eyebrow or two when it comes to male and female relationships..

For instance, these are two that make me raise an eyebrow:

Why is it when a man has multiple sex partners, he's considered 'the man', 'a big pimp', whereas he's put up on a pedestal and admired for his actions, however when a woman has multiple sex partners, she's considered a ho...a real life Jezebel?

Why is it during 3-somes with a man and 2 women, its called just that...'a 3-some'...but when its a woman and 2 men, its called a GANG BANG or stated how a 'train' was ran on the female?
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Old 06-10-2009, 07:48 PM
 
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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LOL I saw a doozey on here earlier; Single men cherish their freedom and that's ok--ok, we can all agree on that, if that's what he wants, but if a woman is single too long, there's something wrong with her.
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Old 06-10-2009, 07:52 PM
 
Location: In my skin
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LOL I saw a doozey on here earlier; Single men cherish their freedom and that's ok--ok, we can all agree on that, if that's what he wants, but if a woman is single too long, there's something wrong with her.
LOL...I thought of that one too.
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Old 06-10-2009, 07:56 PM
 
Location: Delaware...Oi
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LOL I saw a doozey on here earlier; Single men cherish their freedom and that's ok--ok, we can all agree on that, if that's what he wants, but if a woman is single too long, there's something wrong with her.
Obviously, you missed a few threads.
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Old 06-10-2009, 07:57 PM
 
Location: Pittsburgh's 'EAST SIDE'
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Another one..

When a man and woman go out on a date, the woman usually always EXPECTS the man to treat, but if the man EXPECTS the woman to treat, pay half, or go dutch, the man is considered a loser, cheap or just flat out BROKE...........
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Old 06-10-2009, 08:00 PM
 
Location: In my skin
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Another one..

When a man and woman go out on a date, the woman usually always EXPECTS the man to treat, but if the man EXPECTS the woman to treat, pay half, or go dutch, the man is considered a loser, cheap or just flat out BROKE...........
He is usually at least one of the three. That topic has been beaten to death too, but there is a good solution to that. When he offers to take you out to dinner, he should let you know you're paying the tab.....lol.
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Old 06-10-2009, 08:01 PM
 
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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Obviously, you missed a few threads.
Oh I'm sorry, were you the unfortunate author of that mess you quoted/I paraphrased? If so, you're the one missing something, say, a few threads short of a garment.
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Old 06-10-2009, 08:03 PM
 
Location: Pittsburgh's 'EAST SIDE'
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He is usually at least one of the three. That topic has been beaten to death too, but there is a good solution to that. When he offers to take you out to dinner, he should let you know you're paying the tab.....lol.
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Old 06-10-2009, 08:05 PM
 
Location: Delaware...Oi
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Oh I'm sorry, were you the unfortunate author of that mess you quoted/I paraphrased? If so, you're the one missing something, say, a few threads short of a garment.
Yes! You caught me!

No idea what you're referring to, I am referring to more than a few that have stated if you haven't had sex as a man by whatever age, or "enough" partners at a given age, you have to be damaged as a male.

But I'll pass the few fries short of a happy meal back to you, you might be hungry still.
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Old 06-10-2009, 08:07 PM
 
Location: Tampa, Florida
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Name some double standards that make you raise an eyebrow or two when it comes to male and female relationships..

For instance, these are two that make me raise an eyebrow:

Why is it when a man has multiple sex partners, he's considered 'the man', 'a big pimp', whereas he's put up on a pedestal and admired for his actions, however when a woman has multiple sex partners, she's considered a ho...a real life Jezebel?
We still have some residual instincts from the time when men had to spread their seed everywhere to ensure survival of the species and women were supposed to take care of the home.
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Why is it during 3-somes with a man and 2 women, its called just that...'a 3-some'...but when its a woman and 2 men, its called a GANG BANG or stated how a 'train' was ran on the female?
Because the woman is the one getting banged. I don't see how this is a double standard though. Just different terminology.
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