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Old 06-12-2009, 07:02 PM
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I met this girl online in April and we have been chatting on the phone since then and supposed to meet next week but I'm a little uncomfortable her mentioning how she is at the age now(31) where she is looking to be married and have kids.

I really don't need to hear this because I think things should happen naturally. I don't want to talk about marriage when I haven't met you yet. And her references to us living together is something that makes me uncomfortable and seriously considering not meeting her.


Guys if you were me would you be turned off?
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Old 06-12-2009, 07:14 PM
 
Location: Portland, Oregon
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Yes, I would be completely turned off.

If you continue a relationship with this woman, always bring your own condom and take it with you when you leave. Women who want to have kids don't always wait until their partner wants to have kids.

Of course this is a terrible attitude to go into a sexual relationship with, so I'd only advise it if you're really desperate for sex. If you're not, then stay away from her.
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Old 06-12-2009, 07:23 PM
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Yes, I would be completely turned off.

If you continue a relationship with this woman, always bring your own condom and take it with you when you leave. Women who want to have kids don't always wait until their partner wants to have kids.

Of course this is a terrible attitude to go into a sexual relationship with, so I'd only advise it if you're really desperate for sex. If you're not, then stay away from her.

I get so sick of hearing when women say-"I'm 30 and it's time for me to be married and have kids."
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Old 06-12-2009, 07:24 PM
 
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Whoa! I'm a woman and I even say run! There are men out there admittedly looking for the same thing she is and don't mind hearing that. If you're not one of those, look out, you're walking right into it with your eyes wide open.
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Old 06-12-2009, 07:27 PM
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Whoa! I'm a woman and I even say run! There are men out there admittedly looking for the same thing she is and don't mind hearing that. If you're not one of those, look out, you're walking right into it with your eyes wide open.
And sometimes I want to have a regular conversation and get sick of saying-"did you miss me?" if I haven't talked to her in 2 days
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Old 06-12-2009, 07:33 PM
 
Location: Brooklyn, New York
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I met this girl online in April and we have been chatting on the phone since then and supposed to meet next week but I'm a little uncomfortable her mentioning how she is at the age now(31) where she is looking to be married and have kids.

I really don't need to hear this because I think things should happen naturally. I don't want to talk about marriage when I haven't met you yet. And her references to us living together is something that makes me uncomfortable and seriously considering not meeting her.


Guys if you were me would you be turned off?
Turned off? I be totally afraid if I was you at this point to meet her

Haven't met yet and already talking about LIVING TOGETHER and only conversating over the phone asking DID YOU MISS ME?

She sounds a little bit DESPERATE and craving for your attention....BEWARE
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Old 06-12-2009, 07:35 PM
 
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It's desperate, eh?

Oh yeah, some people date/hang out till they're 70.

Keep hanging, fellas
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Old 06-12-2009, 07:41 PM
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Turned off? I be totally afraid if I was you at this point to meet her

Haven't met yet and already talking about LIVING TOGETHER and only conversating over the phone asking DID YOU MISS ME?

She sounds a little bit DESPERATE and craving for your attention....BEWARE

All we was exchange photos and I don't like when she talks to me like that. I told her we may not like each other when we meet so it's no need for it.

I'm on the serious hunt for a replacement
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Old 06-12-2009, 07:42 PM
 
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Whoa! I'm a woman and I even say run! There are men out there admittedly looking for the same thing she is and don't mind hearing that. If you're not one of those, look out, you're walking right into it with your eyes wide open.
haha, I was just going to suggest the same thing, even as a woman myself!

Even I want to get married someday, but not the way this woman wants to..so yes, run! run away fast! she's scary..
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Old 06-12-2009, 07:47 PM
 
Location: SW Missouri
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At least she was honest enough to tell you up front. There are many women out t here who would tell you what you want to her, while secretly wanting these things and then try to trap you into something.

She seems pretty straight forward to me.

What did you say when she told you this?

20yrsinBranson
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