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Old 05-29-2009, 08:57 PM
 
Location: Wicker Park, Chicago
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Guys - ever hit on a chick and it turned out to be a man?

There are crossdressers out there who are very passable and look like pretty chicks... but yeah, they're men! Sometimes they just go out in drag for the adventure of shopping and being treated like a lady, ... like me! [But I don't mess around or lead on men].

So you ever got misled by a crossdresser or maybe a transexual?

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Old 05-29-2009, 09:02 PM
 
Location: NW Montana
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My best male friend from high school had this happen to him. He and "Emma" had been dating for a couple months but nothing physical (beyond kissing) had occured. "Emma" never alluded to being a cross dresser/transsexual (I am only grouping the two together because I am not sure which was the case with "Emma"; I do know there are distinct differences) and it took Max by complete surprise when his hand wandered up her skirt. He remained composed, which must have taken maturity beyond most 20ish males, and wanted to know the deal. "Emma" got up, walked out, and never came around again. To this day, he doesn't know if it was a prank or something important to her. The ironic part is that Max would have been open to exploring this with him/her.
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Old 05-29-2009, 09:06 PM
 
Location: Delaware...Oi
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Nope, and not many could/can pull that off plausably. Living as close to Rehobeth beach and philly as I do...If you grow up with it around you learn to look a little closer than most.
Not that I consider my manliness at stake if I did, I did get hit on by a gay guy in a club once. That was an all around odd evening.

And generally speaking, an adam's apple tends to give it away.
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Old 05-29-2009, 09:20 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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IMO....You just go wanting to look the part, don`t be surprised, if you get hit on, especially a bar sitting. BHA HA HA !!!!!!!!!
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Old 05-29-2009, 09:22 PM
 
Location: South Carolina
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Gawd I shudder to think what might happen to somebody that did that with some of the guys around here...
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Old 05-29-2009, 09:25 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Keep hoping, baby!
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Old 05-29-2009, 09:26 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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Keep hoping, baby!
LOL...No sh*t!!!
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Old 05-29-2009, 09:30 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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Gawd I shudder to think what might happen to somebody that did that with some of the guys around here...
Really?? South Carolina is not that far from Tennessee, darlin`. lol...
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Old 05-29-2009, 09:33 PM
 
Location: Delaware...Oi
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IMO....You just go wanting to look the part, don`t be surprised, if you get hit on, especially a bar sitting. BHA HA HA !!!!!!!!!
I didn't have my "I'm gay" tag on at that time...so it wasn't warranted.

At least he was fairly discrete about it, even if he was a bit over his drink limit. Although I don't think much mistake could be made with him sitting next to me, coming an inch from my face and my "Dude, seriously, wtf?" look being on.

Actually a lot less pushy/personal space issues than with a woman with enough aqua net in her hair that I'm sure she's the sole cause of ozone depletion to this day, from earlier in that same evening.

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Old 05-29-2009, 09:42 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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Serously......what a completely turn off to guys! I mean, if your not interested in the same sex, but yet, find out that they have a d*ck, WTF?
Its absoultely ridiculous anymore, what you see nowdays..... geezzzz....
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