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Old 01-17-2010, 12:01 PM
 
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After reading this thread I can't get "Lola, L-O-L-A, Lola" out of my head...sheesh!
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Old 01-17-2010, 12:54 PM
 
Location: Massachusetts
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You're funny jesse.
I was at a new years party at a mixed club (gay & srt8) in your neck of the woods (chicago) many years ago. A nice gentleman rose from his bar stool and came over to greet me, he reached his hand out to me, and I did the same. Once he touched my hand, he'd realized he had made a serious mistake, and immediately drew his hand back and said "I'm sorry"!

Evidently, he was srt8, and thought I was a real lady, till he saw the size of my hands and the size of my faux nails.

The New Years party wasn't a total loss though, I did get picked out of a crowd of 200 people to enjoy a fine breakfast with a nice guy, and became friends with this nice guy too.

Can I ask if you normally tell men up front that you are really a guy? I've heard stories of guys not being told, and I dont think that is right.

First of all, it's the right thing to do. Second of all, depending on the guy who was fooled, the tranny could be in for a real beating. Some men can be homo-phobic. I would be nervous about doing that myself. But Im a REAL woman.
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Old 01-17-2010, 01:07 PM
 
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Can I ask if you normally tell men up front that you are really a guy? I've heard stories of guys not being told, and I dont think that is right.

First of all, it's the right thing to do. Second of all, depending on the guy who was fooled, the tranny could be in for a real beating. Some men can be homo-phobic. I would be nervous about doing that myself. But Im a REAL woman.
How to answer?

Yes, trannies have been beaten up, and even killed for not telling, and I can see why.

I only frequent diverse establishments, not str8. I only went to this pub with mixed (gay & str8) because of the New years party. I never "approach" people myself.

If in a diverse setting, not too many str8's will be showing up, so, I do not worry about "telling".
My personal taste, if you understand, is not necessarily MEN, especially srt8 MEN. I prefer other trannies to gather and play with. When str8 married men approach, we girls will accept sometimes, but are very careful and wary. It usually is married men who seek out trannies, this I have found out, but still do not understand why. Rarely do trannies go seeking out str8 or married men, at least I never have, nor did my girlfriends I hung with. Men, or str8 men are a turnoff for me. But, if I ever were approached, I would tell upfront.
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Old 01-17-2010, 04:53 PM
 
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Yes, trannies have been beaten up, and even killed for not telling, and I can see why.

I only frequent diverse establishments, not str8. I only went to this pub with mixed (gay & str8) because of the New years party. I never "approach" people myself.

If in a diverse setting, not too many str8's will be showing up, so, I do not worry about "telling".
My personal taste, if you understand, is not necessarily MEN, especially srt8 MEN. I prefer other trannies to gather and play with. When str8 married men approach, we girls will accept sometimes, but are very careful and wary. It usually is married men who seek out trannies, this I have found out, but still do not understand why. Rarely do trannies go seeking out str8 or married men, at least I never have, nor did my girlfriends I hung with. Men, or str8 men are a turnoff for me. But, if I ever were approached, I would tell upfront.
So what is Lady Gaga?
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Old 01-17-2010, 04:57 PM
 
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Guys - ever hit on a chick and it turned out to be a man?

There are crossdressers out there who are very passable and look like pretty chicks... but yeah, they're men! Sometimes they just go out in drag for the adventure of shopping and being treated like a lady, ... like me! [But I don't mess around or lead on men].

So you ever got misled by a crossdresser or maybe a transexual?
I never hit on one, but I have been solicited in the hood by one before. In my work van at work is when it happened. Do you want a date? That depends? That depends on what? How much you are willing to pay me!LMAO......... You a**hole! Gets rid of them every time peeps!
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Old 01-17-2010, 05:38 PM
 
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So what is Lady Gaga?
Lady Gaga - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
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Old 01-17-2010, 10:39 PM
 
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How to answer?

Yes, trannies have been beaten up, and even killed for not telling, and I can see why.

I only frequent diverse establishments, not str8. I only went to this pub with mixed (gay & str8) because of the New years party. I never "approach" people myself.

If in a diverse setting, not too many str8's will be showing up, so, I do not worry about "telling".
My personal taste, if you understand, is not necessarily MEN, especially srt8 MEN. I prefer other trannies to gather and play with. When str8 married men approach, we girls will accept sometimes, but are very careful and wary. It usually is married men who seek out trannies, this I have found out, but still do not understand why. Rarely do trannies go seeking out str8 or married men, at least I never have, nor did my girlfriends I hung with. Men, or str8 men are a turnoff for me. But, if I ever were approached, I would tell upfront.
Probably because married men go after anything that moves.

(Disclaimer: Not ALL married men, only the ones that have affairs).

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So what is Lady Gaga?
That's just a rumor.
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Old 01-18-2010, 09:28 AM
 
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Probably because married men go after anything that moves.

(Disclaimer: Not ALL married men, only the ones that have affairs).



That's just a rumor.
I never could understand why a married man would go into a gay pub, and browse for trannies.
I had a trannie friend, who had an affair w/a man, and she/trannie ended up in divorce court when real female spouse found out.
I would think a married man would go after a real woman, and not with a person of the same sex. Maybe hard up? Many real men would do without anything.
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Old 01-18-2010, 09:47 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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I never could understand why a married man would go into a gay pub, and browse for trannies.

I would think a married man would go after a real woman, and not with a person of the same sex.
I'd think it's because these men have some homosexual urges, but being with a tranny still allows them to convince themselves that they're not gay.
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Old 01-18-2010, 10:24 AM
 
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Lol, Id sure like to have been there to see the expression on their faces!
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