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Old 04-02-2011, 10:21 PM
 
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Different couple, different place....I'm always looking to add to my social skills though as well as my friends. Thanks for noticing though. Now do you have any helpful tips to give?
you sound like an old bald hairy dude with too much time on his hands... Nice try, but you're not fooling me.
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Old 04-02-2011, 10:28 PM
 
Location: Northern NH
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you sound like an old bald hairy dude with too much time on his hands... Nice try, but you're not fooling me.

Darn you caught me1!!
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Old 04-02-2011, 10:28 PM
 
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Where do you get these couples from Craigslist?
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Old 04-02-2011, 10:41 PM
 
Location: Northern NH
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Where do you get these couples from Craigslist?

Oh no, if you are in the Lifestyle there are entire networks for this. I'm just sort of bringing this into the open in fact you guys would be so very surprised just how many parties and networks there are
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Old 04-02-2011, 10:52 PM
 
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Oh no, if you are in the Lifestyle there are entire networks for this. I'm just sort of bringing this into the open in fact you guys would be so very surprised just how many parties and networks there are
do you believe in the current laws of America, that one man and one woman can only be married?
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Old 04-02-2011, 10:54 PM
 
Location: Northern NH
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do you believe in the current laws of America, that one man and one woman can only be married?
No not really, but, to be quite honest we aren't looking for additional spouses. How about yourself?
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Old 04-02-2011, 11:05 PM
 
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No not really, but, to be quite honest we aren't looking for additional spouses. How about yourself?
I don't agree with the law either. I think prostitution/etc , should be legal. But I personally believe that if I ever get married, it will because I want to be with only that ONE person sexually and intimately for the rest of my life.
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Old 04-02-2011, 11:27 PM
 
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You are so right on that one!!
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Oh, quite the other end of the spectrum to be quite honest, but, I'm always brainstorming. Tonight I really had to work to keep the conversation flowing and it wasn't that easy so it became clear that it wasn't a match at all and it is always interesting how four people can just so totally click and other times not so much.
So it's surprising to you that some people click and others don't within a small pool of people in the lifestyle? Plus all 4 have to get along & be sexually attracted. It's hard enough for 1 person to meet another on that level much less 4.

I can't put my finger on it but there is something about the way you communicate that just annoys the heck out of me. I'm really not trying to be rude or flame but when I read responses like these ^ , there is a detachment & an air of passive aggression. Idk, maybe I'm reading too much into it. (?)

Your response to someone challenging you or stating a strong point of view is met with a confounding wall. How can you answer with "you're right "? Is that your way with coping with alternative points of view or refusing to get too deep into your motivations?

You say you don't keep up with the news or know much about how to handle yourself in social situations. Why is that? Why wouldn't you be interested in the world around you and what about interacting socially is difficult for you? Do you think you are somewhat disconnected?

If so, what's up with that?
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Old 04-03-2011, 12:24 AM
 
Location: San Francisco, CA
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Just talk about freaky sex, I guess. Isn't that what you're meeting them for anyways?
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Old 04-03-2011, 03:16 AM
 
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Oh no, if you are in the Lifestyle there are entire networks for this. I'm just sort of bringing this into the open in fact you guys would be so very surprised just how many parties and networks there are
so, there are tons of networks in the lifestyle but you feel you need to ask for advice (several times) here? And yes, you can do that, OF COURSE, but I'm surprised because surely people in the lifestyle know many great and suitable conversation starters for such specific occasions and what to do if things go wrong, etc?
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