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Old 07-17-2009, 12:49 AM
 
Location: Coachella Valley, California
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Jeepers - I have a brother. Single, never married, no kids, good job, has teeth, and is super, super funny!
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Old 07-17-2009, 12:54 AM
 
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Jeepers - I have a brother. Single, never married, no kids, good job, has teeth, and is super, super funny!
Hmmm! He has to be 6'0! You know how I am about the height! No kids is good, I typically will not date a man with minor/younger children (and I do not want to have anymore children myself).

But. . does busting a cap in people's asses run in the family?
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Old 07-17-2009, 12:56 AM
 
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He's 6'3". Yeah ... I could see him bustin' a cap if he had to.
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Old 07-17-2009, 12:58 AM
 
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He's 6'3". Yeah ... I could see him bustin' a cap if he had to.

This is going to turn into an X-rated thread . . I see it now!
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Old 07-17-2009, 01:02 AM
 
Location: Coachella Valley, California
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Actually he posted in here a couple of times a long time ago. I tried to get him in here, but he said this forum moves too fast for him. By the time he would get home from work and get on the computer, a thread he might have been watching would be 60 pages by the time he got around to it. So he lost interest.
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Old 07-17-2009, 01:02 AM
 
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Maybe the last girl he dated got a kick from champagne.


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Old 07-17-2009, 01:07 AM
 
Location: Tampa (by way of Omaha)
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Hmmm! He has to be 6'0!
Whew, I just barely cleared that bar!

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But. . does busting a cap in people's asses run in the family?
Ya know, we could apply a couple different meanings to that. LOL
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Old 07-17-2009, 01:21 AM
 
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Actually he posted in here a couple of times a long time ago. I tried to get him in here, but he said this forum moves too fast for him. By the time he would get home from work and get on the computer, a thread he might have been watching would be 60 pages by the time he got around to it. So he lost interest.
You should see the way I felt when I came back from my CD-break, there was so much catching up to do (and still have more)!

Ok, I am sure I might get whomped for asking this, but I can handle it. . . So what IF this guy comes to me tomorrow with an extensive apology about what a doofus he acted like. . . cause who knows, maybe he was feeling like a total jerk tonight with his tail in between his legs. . . . and with the exception of the bubbly crap I was cornered with on the occasions that he did it. . . I like the guy. IF he did not do it anymore and never used the word bubbly again, I would be cool.

I know no one is perfect - and sometimes we do not realize our errors unless they have been made through another person to correct them. Dating/Relationships are not easy and they take work. Am I just being a total dork in thinking this . . . or is what he has done just (perhaps) a symptom of a much bigger problem?

Where do you draw the line?

This is a big IF he comes to me tomorrow. . . he could not, of course.

But if he does. . . and if you liked a guy (or girl for the guys) - and they realized the error of their way/s and are made aware to refrain and it soaked in their brain. . would you give it another shot?
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Old 07-17-2009, 01:25 AM
 
Location: Coachella Valley, California
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If he agreed to stop, I'd give him another shot. But I'd be cautious - looking for other idiosyncrasies that might occur. So - yes, another chance, but keep your eyes and ears peeled.
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Old 07-17-2009, 01:25 AM
 
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You should see the way I felt when I came back from my CD-break, there was so much catching up to do (and still have more)!

Ok, I am sure I might get whomped for asking this, but I can handle it. . . So what IF this guy comes to me tomorrow with an extensive apology about what a doofus he acted like. . . cause who knows, maybe he was feeling like a total jerk tonight with his tail in between his legs. . . . and with the exception of the bubbly crap I was cornered with on the occasions that he did it. . . I like the guy. IF he did not do it anymore and never used the word bubbly again, I would be cool.

I know no one is perfect - and sometimes we do not realize our errors unless they have been made through another person to correct them. Dating/Relationships are not easy and they take work. Am I just being a total dork in thinking this . . . or is what he has done just (perhaps) a symptom of a much bigger problem?

Where do you draw the line?

This is a big IF he comes to me tomorrow. . . he could not, of course.

But if he does. . . and if you liked a guy (or girl for the guys) - and they realized the error of their way/s and are made aware to refrain and it soaked in their brain. . would you give it another shot?
Go ahead and give him another shot, but you need to be very objective in how you look at him. I see a red flag here, just not sure if it's a small issue or big issue.
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