for long term live-in relationship or marriage...
1. When you start having to lie, to keep the bills paid, like telling him that there is really only 40 bucks left in checking account, instead of the actual 400, because you are afraid of having to cover all the rent again.
2. When you see other women's husbands, and think about how nice they are and how you wished you had one like that. And wow he is employed and wears decent clothes.
3. When they think it is ok to slam brakes in middle of street just because of getting angry at another driver.
4. When they start looking "ugly" to you.
5. When you think to yourself "Their character is so poor"
6. When you do not do anything fun together anymore, and you perfer actually going out alone. When you grocery shop alone leaving them in the car.
7. When they "bore" you.
8. When you realize it's never going to get any better.
9. When you buy a Pay as You Go cell phone so you can talk privately outside of your apartment door.
10. When the dictates of your religion only make you feel guilty and you know its so bad, you are going to go against them anyway.
11. When sleep becomes an escape.
12. When you perfer the internet to their company.
13. When you wish they would leave, so you do not have to go through the work of leaving but you know they will never take the intiative.
14. When their farts smell so bad, you feel like you are going to faint...
{ok lighthearted moment to end this list hehehehee, people notice less of this stuff when the rose of love is still in bloom}
{yes I know this is a LONG LIST}