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Sounds like you are giving up on yourself before you even start! There is nothing wrong with being smart but also allowing yourself to get silly every now and then.
Rep time! That is exactly what I was trying to tell her
oh, well, I could have done the same, but I didn't want to look like a stupid woman (I wanted to put another word that starts with w, but it wouldn't let me).
I guess this is how I miss out on guys all the time, and they overlook me - because I don't want to come off as a stupid woman, and I guess in reality, a guy isn't worth me moving out of my comfort zone and competing with obnoxious women like that.
Eh, whatever, be yourself, be different, don't be another idiot. I hate the idea that because you're at a party or something you have to act like a total retard and just behave like a zoo animal. I want girls who can talk about interesting stuff, I HATE dancing, I refuse to engage in a useless expenditure of energy for no purpose whatsoever. I'd far rather talk about something interesting with a girl than just behave like a moron as most people seem to love doing so much. It's seriously pathetic.
You will find a guy who actually appreciates that you are not just another bimbo.
it's not that I care what OTHER people think, it's how I perceive MYSELF. and I don't want to feel like I compromised my pride/dignity by fawning all over some guy.
I think you did the right thing by not clawing at him. Girls like that are only good for flings, mostly. Men really don't respect women like that. Flirting doesn't have to be that way. To me, it's just being light hearted, having fun, having a sense of humor, and smiling at the guy, listening to him, and making him feel listened to, etc. It's also the way you take care to groom yourself to present to the world. Obviously, if you are looking for a good guy, then you wouldn't want to dress like or act like a whooohoohooo....but presentation is very important.
it's not that I care what OTHER people think, it's how I perceive MYSELF. and I don't want to feel like I compromised my pride/dignity by fawning all over some guy.
I could say the same thing about women..Both genders are mush in front of good looking people..
Young in the 1960's I had a 17 year old cousin who was a dead ringer for Ricky Nelson. Seriously, if you took 8 years off Nelson, put both of them in a room you couldn't tell who was who.
Almost embarrassed to say it but my cousin was gorgeous and I'm a guy with no well... I don't like guys.
Girls over to his house constantly, they wouldn't leave him alone and if he would enter a room full of young girls it was like flies to you know what.
That was his curse.
Like Ricky Nelson he died young but, unlike Ricky Nelson, he died poor. Like the Bumblebee he couldn't help but pollinate. Seven children later, by seven different women, all the money he made was going to child support and he was going bald losing all that hair that I would have sold my soul to the devil to have.
His looks were a curse. Instead of making something of himself he became what he was... a ladies man and really not all that cultured just good looking.
His end came stealing copper wire. He thought that electrical substation with 250,000 volts was decommissioned but it wasn't. He didn't even need to touch the wire just get close and it got him. Was really a sad end to a sad life.
um, NO.
if I was a lesbian these stupid guys wouldn't get to me so badly.
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