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Old 08-30-2009, 06:06 PM
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Location: MA/NH
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She attracts a lot of men! Guess what, "perfection" and "taste" varies from man to man too! Let her attract the men and yes, snag the ones that prefer brunetts! ha ha
So true!! I would actually have little interest in dating a man that is only attracted to a woman for her gorgeous looks. I need a man that appreciates my intelligence and inner quirkiness.
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Old 08-30-2009, 06:21 PM
 
Location: Whoville....
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The othe woman has the problem. She obviously does not have internal self esteem to realize that even though "super goddess" maybe attractive to most men, some men may not be attracted to her, maybe they like blondes, or a woman with a big bootie, who knows (?). While her point maybe valid, it seems to me that she is jealous, and does not realize her own merits.
I have to disagree. When I go out, I don't want my group to be the center of attention. I just want to be able to relax and have a good time. I'd probably opt to stay home if I knew someone who drew hollywood style attention was going. It's not an issue of self esteem but simply preferring to spend my evenings a little more privately.
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Old 08-30-2009, 07:38 PM
 
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Recently, I found out that a good guy friend of mine was telling our mutual friends that he would not go out if I was going. My other friend told me that it's because the people we hang out with pay attention to me and he says it's getting old. I don't get it - and it hurt my feelings - and I'm waiting to see him again so I can put my foot up his ***. See if he likes that attention.

Spotlight envy or something like that.
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Old 08-30-2009, 07:44 PM
 
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I have to disagree. When I go out, I don't want my group to be the center of attention. I just want to be able to relax and have a good time. I'd probably opt to stay home if I knew someone who drew hollywood style attention was going. It's not an issue of self esteem but simply preferring to spend my evenings a little more privately.
I completely agree. When I go out, I do it to have a good time on my own terms. If I'm with someone who commands attention from others, for whatever reason, the enjoyment would pretty much be sapped for me.
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Old 08-31-2009, 12:21 PM
 
Location: Right Here
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I have been friends with people someone who gets all the attention and yeah, self-esteem is a factor...but I don't know how it wouldn't have an effect on someone?

It get's pretty old, pretty quickly.....there's only so much one can take.
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