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So.. moral of the story: Don't gain weight! Quit coming up with excuses.
Also, some say she may have gained weight from being unhappy. So? How could she not have known that gaining weight would lead to more misery, damage the relationship more, and lead to a downward spiral?
He has told her several times to lose the weight, she hasn't. He has to fantasize about other women to have sex with her. It's obviously a huge issue to him, he's told her, and still she didn't lose the weight. Sounds like he was at his wits end. Sometimes you just gotta come right out and say what needs to be said if beating around the bush hasn't worked.
you seriously wounded her, id keep an eye on her to... (alot of women, if told something like that will go to extremes sometimes... ie.. fat, they stop eating, etc.) i had an ex boyfriend tell me i was fat, this was 6 yrs ago, and i remember it like yesturday, i went from 180 down to 115 by not eating... then went tanning, etc to make myself Hott... not healthy, but truth is i KNOW ALOT of women who do and would do the same exact thing, especially when told by the person u love the most!!!
and its EVEN WORSE when they already feel it about themselves, (and believe me women are insecure about alot of things)
what u should do, is if she overweight, offer to take her to the gym, etc... buy her sexy clothes to make her appeal better.. etc...
gosh man, u really hurt her, i feel bad 4 her!
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