Were you shy about being seen naked the first time your lover saw all of you? (girlfriend, girls)
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I think it is normal to feel a little bit of nervousness the first few times you are in the buff with a loved one. But, that should quickly pass.
It becomes abnormal behavior however, if that nervousness and/or fear interferes with intimacy. If there is a demand for "lights out" and "covers up" then both of you are in serious trouble! After all, these are the moments of total surrender and personal exposure ("O").
If the relationship is a good one, without guilt (not a fling, hooker, etc.) then you should normally desire to dance around playful-naked as a jay bird, etc. with your mate. Otherwise, there will inevitably be- D-I-S-S-A-T-I-S-F-A-C-T-I-O-N!
Last edited by picklejuice; 10-22-2009 at 08:27 AM..
Nope. Not shy in front of anybody. i know what's appropriate, obviously, but I'm not embarrassed either. Probably has something to do with seeing people naked everyday... it's just not that big of a deal. Vacationed a couple of times with like-minded people, no inappropriate touching, nothing like that. I think Americans are a bit uptight about nudity in general.
Nudity is scandalous and violence is in kid's video games and TV shows. Yep, America: land of the freaks, home of the strange...
Were you shy about being seen naked the first time your lover saw all of you?
How about the first time you were naked in front of your lover. were you nervous about him or her seeing all of you the first time?
(I sure was)
Seriously, its time for a name change. Its the most inappropriate name on CD.
No way was I shy about her seeing me and she was not shy at all about me seeing her. I dont think Ive ever been shy with being naked around a woman for the first time. Ive never been with a woman (that I can recall) who felt shy as well.
What university did you go to? What line of work are you in?
Wow. Haha, this is funny. In the other thread I posted that I am not shy about it at all. I work out, take care of my body, and keep it in shape so I do not have to be. Having lived in the hotter US states the majority of my life, I'm accustomed to wearing the least amount of clothing as possible and walking around in swim suits. I really like my body, I do not mind it being seen in the buff in front of my partner - be it the first time or 100th time. I am proud of it. What's so difficult to grasp about that? I cannot understand the 'other side' that wraps the sheet around them when they get out of bed or wears a long t-shirt in the pool over their swim suit. You can let your partner make love to you and be all over you, but won't let him see your body in a vertical position? Doesn't make sense. To me, that is slighting your partner, and slighting yourself. If you are not comfortable being in your own skin - change it then - your issue.
No, not shy at all. Really, what's the big deal? You're nude in front of someone with whom you about to have sex. Like max's mama, the first time (and second, third, fourth...) I was very aroused and not worried about being naked. Furthermore, she's gonna have my stick inside of her...there's nothing wrong at all with her having a good look at him. Likewise, I want to take a look at the pool I'm diving into.
I agree with NY Annie: your presumptions and misperceptions are astounding. Sounds like you've got some hangups, Brainy Intellectual Type.
I get a touch of nervousness the first time, but it goes away quickly!!
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