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Old 10-22-2009, 11:59 AM
 
Location: Falls Church, VA
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Alright, here is the dl on this relationship:

Boy meets girl/girl meets boy (however you want to put it) she is everything he has dreamed of (he has told her so) he is everything she has been looking for (after many failed relationships)

There seems to be great chemistry, they have many things in common, similar tastes in music, food, cultural and religious believes, blah, blah, blah, you get the idea, they seem to be perfect for each other...

Here is the "issue" at hand, she is a very sexual person, he wants to wait until they get to know each other better, he said he wants to fall in love with her for all the right reasons, not just the great sex...

So my question is: Is he just saying all the right things to get the girl head over hills and get her in bed sooner? Is he one of the few decent man left?

What say you?

Last edited by valeeighty2; 10-22-2009 at 12:16 PM.. Reason: Fixed the spelling... lol...
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Old 10-22-2009, 12:05 PM
 
Location: USA
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My best guy friend will not sleep with women right away. He has been dating one woman now for 4 weeks and hasn't tried to score. They have slept in the same bed the past two weekends, but will not have sex with a woman unless he knows with absolute certainty that he is going to stick around and has no interest in complicating a woman's head until he is solid. He is very old fashioned in this regard with no ulterior motives.
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Old 10-22-2009, 12:08 PM
 
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Alright, here is the dl on this relationship:

Boy meets girl/girl meets boy (however you want to put it) she is everything he has dreamed of (he has told her so) he is everything she has been looking for (after many failed relationships)

There seems to be great chemistry, they have many things in common, similar tastes in music, food, cultural and religious believes, blah, blah, blah, you get the idea, they seem to be perfect for each other...

Here is the "issue" at hand, she is a very sexual person, he wants to wait until they get to know each other better, he said he wants to fall in love with her for all the right reasons, not just the great sex...

So my question is: Is he just saying all the right things to get the girl head over hills and get her in bed sooner? Is he one of the few decent man left?

What say you?
He sounds like a decent guy. He's looking to get to know who she is before jumping into bed rather than one of those wham bam thank you ma'am relationships. Sounds like the guy is looking for a long term and not just dating.
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Old 10-22-2009, 12:10 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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He sounds like a decent guy. He's looking to get to know who she is before jumping into bed rather than one of those wham bam thank you ma'am relationships. Sounds like the guy is looking for a long term and not just dating.
I think its great that he wants to wait!
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Old 10-22-2009, 12:13 PM
 
Location: pittsburgh
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i would like to find the right person instead of a "hit it and quit it"
anyone can find a peice of a$$, its finding the right one is the hard part

good for that person for waiting to see if there is somthing there instead of just a quick hit
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Old 10-22-2009, 12:14 PM
 
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Darn, I thought there was going to be photos of a mans rear end!
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Old 10-22-2009, 12:15 PM
 
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Actually I was expecting some sort of naughty post considering the title is "rear male speciman".
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Old 10-22-2009, 12:15 PM
 
Location: Falls Church, VA
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Darn, I thought there was going to be photos of a mans rear end!
LOLOLOL!!! Can't seem to spell right these days... LOL...
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Old 10-22-2009, 12:17 PM
 
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Alright, here is the dl on this relationship:

Boy meets girl/girl meets boy (however you want to put it) she is everything he has dreamed of (he has told her so) he is everything she has been looking for (after many failed relationships)

There seems to be great chemistry, they have many things in common, similar tastes in music, food, cultural and religious believes, blah, blah, blah, you get the idea, they seem to be perfect for each other...

Here is the "issue" at hand, she is a very sexual person, he wants to wait until they get to know each other better, he said he wants to fall in love with her for all the right reasons, not just the great sex...

So my question is: Is he just saying all the right things to get the girl head over hills and get her in bed sooner? Is he one of the few decent man left?

What say you?
Hi valeeighty2,

I went cold turkey for years so yes, its possible. It was not always easy especially once it was serious.
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Old 10-22-2009, 12:19 PM
 
Location: Whiteville Tennessee
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Darn, I thought there was going to be photos of a mans rear end!
What a tease! Artsyguy probably had a beer and lotion all ready for a good post. Love ya Artsy!
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