Are woman with no father or father issues more sexual? (Christian, Asian)
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Was reading the thread where people have gone years without sex and got to thinking.
The overwhelming majority of girls who do porn have issues with their father or no father. Based on this, if a guy had a high libido, would it increase the odds of finding a more sexual female if he focused his efforts on fatherless or had father issues?
I can see it now, a guy brings a girl out on a date and one of the first questions is "how's your relationship with your father?"
Why? Looking to capitalize on women w/ emotional problems?
I think the biggest problem with this line of thinking is that everyone has some kind of father issue, if even that he was so perfect that no one else can compare.
...The overwhelming majority of girls who do porn have issues with their father or no father. Based on this, if a guy had a high libido, would it increase the odds of finding a more sexual female if he focused his efforts on fatherless or had father issues?
Just based on my own experiences with women who have had "father issues", I'd guess that your best bet would to find an emotionally well-balanced woman, and that would usually mean one who did NOT have father issues.
People, both men and women, can suffer throughout their adult lives when their childhood is messed up. This sometimes is manifested with out-of-control activities of one kind or another -- excessive drugs and alcohol, eating disorders, sexual promiscuity, etc. It can also go the other way -- low sex drive, low self esteem, etc.
If you've got a high libido, the best thing you can do is look for a partner who also has a high sex drive, but it's difficult to judge that until you've lived together a few years. People change, and partners try to put their best foot forward in the beginning of a relationship.
Was reading the thread where people have gone years without sex and got to thinking.
The overwhelming majority of girls who do porn have issues with their father or no father. Based on this, if a guy had a high libido, would it increase the odds of finding a more sexual female if he focused his efforts on fatherless or had father issues?
I can see it now, a guy brings a girl out on a date and one of the first questions is "how's your relationship with your father?"
I have not observed this. It is possible but with all of the variables that contribute to a person's character, it would seem near impossible to really know.
Why? Looking to capitalize on women w/ emotional problems?
Yeah, I can't help wondering if the blokes that are hunting for women with perceived Daddy issues because they think it'll get their end in faster don't have some SERIOUS Mummy issues......
Well, don't women always look for men with very high self-esteem (aka-confidence)... that offends nice men who lack a little confidence.
Also, sex raises the confidence level of a man most times.. should it not also raise the confidence (self-esteem) of women?????
1. Yes, women do. For a relationship. My BIL was talking about finding women w/ self esteem problems for an easy lay. Also, men who lack a little self confidence may be perceived as possibly unable to perform and so wouldn't be a good candidate for a casual sex relationship.
2. It would not raise her confidence level with casual sex if she ends up feeling used from the encounter. If she feels that it's something that she went out and sought it will raise her self esteem. Again though, this has a lot to do with society's expectations of men and women--men are supposed to go for anything they can get, so when they do win through, they are proud. Women are supposed to be the gatekeepers, so when they fail to guard the gate, they can end up feeling used and therefore worse about the encounter.
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