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Old 11-06-2009, 08:04 AM
 
Location: Sunny Florida
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I believe that the cheaters of the world always have and always will find a way to cheat. It's sad, but true, and the honest, faithful, trusting people will end up getting lied to and hurt.
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Old 11-06-2009, 04:10 PM
 
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yes, it is easier to cheat with things like on-line sex, creating a made-up on-line profile, lying about who and what you are, lying about anything, and talking with someone online without ever meeting them or talking on the phone
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Old 11-06-2009, 04:13 PM
 
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I believe that the cheaters of the world always have and always will find a way to cheat. It's sad, but true, and the honest, faithful, trusting people will end up getting lied to and hurt.
yes, there are always people who are dishonest and lie and cheat

but the only "honest faithful trusting people" who get "lied to and hurt" are those who keep playing the victim, and don't learn to use their common sense and discernment.

Learning how NOT to be a victim is an important skill to have in life. When one has that, then the cheaters and dishonest people fade in the power they have to do harm.
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Old 11-06-2009, 04:21 PM
 
Location: New Hampshire
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People just need to grow up and move on if they don't think they want to be with a certain person.
Cheating is just too damn disrespectful.
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Old 11-06-2009, 04:33 PM
 
Location: Middle America
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It's a ton easier to get busted cheating, now, when you leave electronic evidence all over the place.
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Old 11-06-2009, 04:46 PM
 
Location: Bradenton, Florida
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Theirs so many ways to get in contact people nowadays, and basically where theres a will, theres a way, is it easier to cheat now, than back in the old days?
First, we'd have to define "cheating". Is it "cheating" to merely talk to another woman with no sexual contact whatsoever?

Some say yes, some say no.
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Old 11-06-2009, 06:34 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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Yes, it is.
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Old 11-06-2009, 08:37 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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It's easier to cheat, but easier to get caught. With more ways of communication means more ways to catch you.
You summed it up in a concise way.
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Old 12-31-2009, 08:38 PM
 
Location: OCEAN BREEZES AND VIEWS SAN CLEMENTE
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The world is connected.

You can meet people on the other side of the world.

You can meet people you went to school with.

You can meet... just about anyone with technology now a days.

It's all good but can be dangerous too.

As for cheating...if you were able to openly talk with your spouse that this clown is trying to contact me...you both can laugh it off. If you start hiding stuff then it gets dangerous.

I like your answer, cheating is easier to do today. But you most certainly can get caught, emails, texting, certain sites. Cheating is dangerous, so don't do it, talk about your problems, before it becomes to that point. Communication is very important keep that link open.
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Old 12-31-2009, 08:52 PM
 
Location: Bradenton, Florida
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Theirs so many ways to get in contact people nowadays, and basically where theres a will, theres a way, is it easier to cheat now, than back in the old days?
1) Simply getting in contact with someone is NOT the same as cheating, unless you meet in person.

2) It would seem that it would be easier to be "found out" if you did this sort of thing.

3) If you set up your partner...as a test...but you yourself are the person he's talking to about meeting--is it still cheating? Is it cheating if you put on a wig?
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