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It never seems to really be about their personality but looks the majority of the time
Ive seen women call guys creepy who seemed like normal guys approaching and talking to them then id aks the girl if its something said or did and she would say no he just seemed creepy
Ive never heard a girl call a good looking guy approaching her creepy and theyrs times the guy came off as a socially awkard creep..Hed probably have to ask to lick her shoes or soemthing for any creepy word to be used..
So ladies do you think sometimes you judge creepiness more by how the guy looks then actually creepy behavior?
When women call certain guys who approach them "creepy"
Being creepy is a combination of both looks and personality. And yes, a good looking man can come across as creepy from a distance. Like if he is obviously ogling other women as in staring at their breasts. A person's body language is very telling, as is the expressions on their face. So don't go thinking that women only think ugly guys creepy. Or that good looking guys can get away with anything.
Creepy could also be a much older man leering at teen girls or young women in a sexual way. Like Hugh Hefner. But ever George Clooney shouldn't be eyeing 20 year olds without being thought creepy imo.
And creepy can be getting a sexual come on from any man that we wouldn't dream of sleeping with. That's why it's best to approach a woman in a more neutrally friendly manner first, then if you think you are getting a green light, turn up the charm. So to start off the first conversation with a pretty woman by saying "Hey there sexy momma" is usually not a good idea, and in the old days, you'd get your face slapped... even if you looked like Brad Pitt.
Asking women and observing women tend to be very different things.
What I've mostly heard when asking is "it depends".
What I've observed is that blatant behaviours aside (panting, shoe-licking, overt sweating and/or drooling), the real difference lies in whether she's interested or not. The exact same behaviours from two different guys can be labeled "sweet" from one and "creepy" from the other.
Sometimes it's looks but most times it's the way they talk or look at you and there is an uneasiness that isn't under the catagory of simple awkwardness and then there's that undeniable 6th sense that gives you the feeling he's hiding people in his basement or something and you could be next.
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