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Old 05-17-2007, 09:22 PM
 
Location: Old Town Alexandria
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Cant get into it right now, but thanks to many factors and stress, it is official. Now I will be shelling out cash to appraisers and attorneys. Does anyone have any Xanax?


sunny
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Old 05-17-2007, 10:46 PM
 
Location: So. Dak.
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Sunny, I'm SO sorry to hear about the divorce. It has to be so hard to go through, but know that we're here for you. When you feel like posting a bit about it, we're ready to listen. Take care and try to have a nice evening.
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Old 05-17-2007, 10:58 PM
 
Location: Debary, Florida
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I am sorry to hear that...but if things are bad enough to make you go in this direction then try and keep in site that it will get better in time...

I noticed when my ex left that things were SO much more peaceful...I no longer dreaded coming home from work, I could come home, do my thing with my daughter and not be harassed and annoyed...
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Old 05-18-2007, 05:08 AM
 
Location: In the sunshine on a ship with a plank
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It's a scary place to walk in to but I recall some of your posts stating that this was inevitable........... when you're on the other side you will be happier, healthier and realize that walking through a little bit of fire is well worth it for the happiness you will find for yourself. I was where you are five years ago- and I'm happier now than I've ever been before.
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Old 05-18-2007, 06:39 AM
 
Location: Chattanooga TN
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Ah Sunny, so sorry to hear that. No Zanax here but a virtual hug I do have. Things are gonna get tough girly but it's going to be ok.
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Old 05-18-2007, 12:25 PM
 
Location: Sand Springs, OK
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Hang in there, you will make it through just fine. I'm sorry you have to go through this.

Don't ever think you're by yourself through all of this. If you need us to just listen, or want advice or just want virtual hugs, we're here.
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Old 05-18-2007, 05:46 PM
 
Location: NE Florida
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sunny
sending you good thoughts and hugs

karla
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Old 05-19-2007, 09:56 AM
 
Location: Sherman Oaks, CA
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Deciding to get a divorce was the most difficult decision I have ever had to make. Our kids were so young, only five and not quite two. I couldn't live with him anymore, though. Six years of Hell, and I felt suicidal.

Sunny, I'm sure you tried long past the point where you probably should have called it quits. No one starts a marriage thinking they'll get divorced, but it'll be okay. Things have a way of working out for the best, if given enough time.
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Old 05-19-2007, 10:15 AM
 
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sunnyhelena,

Sorry to hear that you are going to get a divorce. But I hope you can get through this as quickly and with as little pain a possible.

Hugs, Roma
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Old 05-19-2007, 01:41 PM
 
Location: Tucson, AZ
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Sorry to hear that it came to that. While it's going to be very tough on you in the short run, it WILL be much to your benefit in the long run. You'll be a much happier person with a clearer head.
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