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Old 01-22-2010, 07:36 PM
 
Location: New Hampshire
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I still can't believe my husband has decided to end our marriage before we even tried.

He waited months to say that to me. He doesn't work, I support us...and now this?

I love him so dearly and I've done so much to help him.

What a slap in the face.

I don't see a point in living anymore. I've hit rock bottom.
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Old 01-22-2010, 07:39 PM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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I still can't believe my husband has decided to end our marriage before we even tried.

He waited months to say that to me. He doesn't work, I support us...and now this?

I love him so dearly and I've done so much to help him.

What a slap in the face.

I don't see a point in living anymore. I've hit rock bottom.
That's a little extreme.

Besides, it's his loss, not yours. You just gotta move ahead, you can support yourself. At least, be glad that you can.
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Old 01-22-2010, 07:41 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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Wow! I`m sorry to hear this. I assume sitting down to talk it out, or counseling is out of the question huh?
Did he give you a reason as to why he is leaving?
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Old 01-22-2010, 07:41 PM
 
Location: NH
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I still can't believe my husband has decided to end our marriage before we even tried.

He waited months to say that to me. He doesn't work, I support us...and now this?

I love him so dearly and I've done so much to help him.

What a slap in the face.

I don't see a point in living anymore. I've hit rock bottom.
I'm sorry to hear what happened. Even though I don't know your situation, don't do anything rash and selfish.
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Old 01-22-2010, 07:45 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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I still can't believe my husband has decided to end our marriage before we even tried.

He waited months to say that to me. He doesn't work, I support us...and now this?

I love him so dearly and I've done so much to help him.

What a slap in the face.

I don't see a point in living anymore. I've hit rock bottom.
I know you are hurting, but you are also not the first person to go thru something this upsetting and painful. You need to realize that people DO get thru this - your life is NOT over and there is still a lot to live for!!

Sure, you can't see it now - but I can almost guarantee you one day in the future you will look back at this terrible time and it will just be a bad, distant memory.

Right now you have to hold on that and not let your emotions take you down a path you really don't want to go down.

Always remember, suicide is permanent solution to a temporary problem.

Hang in there!
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Old 01-22-2010, 07:51 PM
 
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I still can't believe my husband has decided to end our marriage before we even tried.

He waited months to say that to me. He doesn't work, I support us...and now this?

I love him so dearly and I've done so much to help him.

What a slap in the face.

I don't see a point in living anymore. I've hit rock bottom.
So sorry that you are going through this. Regardless of what the reasons are and what you have done for him or not, you are a person of worth not to be defined by who you are married to or not.

Please go talk to someone close to you. It's ok to cry, it's healthy to grieve, but never believe that life is not worth living and fighting for - Giving up doesn't sound like something a KickAssArmyChick would do.
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Old 01-22-2010, 07:53 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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I still can't believe my husband has decided to end our marriage before we even tried.

He waited months to say that to me. He doesn't work, I support us...and now this?

I love him so dearly and I've done so much to help him.

What a slap in the face.

I don't see a point in living anymore. I've hit rock bottom.
And no offense, but he sounds like he has "issues". Is he clinically depressed by any chance?
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Old 01-22-2010, 07:56 PM
 
Location: New Hampshire
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And no offense, but he sounds like he has "issues". Is he clinically depressed by any chance?
Yes. He takes Seroquel for being Bi-polar.
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Old 01-22-2010, 07:57 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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Yes. He takes Seroquel for being Bi-polar.
Well then, there's your answer honey. Life with someone who is bi-polar is never a picnic. I feel for you
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Old 01-22-2010, 07:59 PM
 
Location: SW Missouri
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I still can't believe my husband has decided to end our marriage before we even tried.

He waited months to say that to me. He doesn't work, I support us...and now this?

I love him so dearly and I've done so much to help him.

What a slap in the face.

I don't see a point in living anymore. I've hit rock bottom.
You will never believe this. But one day, you'll look back on all this and roll your eyes and laugh. NO. I am not joking.

What seems like an earth-shattering event will change with time and a shift in your perspective. Look ahead five or six years when you have found a good man who treats you like a queen, supports you well financially and makes you happy. This will all seem like a bad dream that you are glad to be out of.

Hang in there. THE BEST PART OF YOUR LIFE IS YET TO COME. I know, I have been there.

20yrsinBranson
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