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For the life of me I cannot imagine how someone can not love their own child regardless of the circumstances. How he can take out his bitterness on his own son is beyond me, he sounds like a cold, selfish, heartless ass. I understand this women duped him, but you don't take it out on your child.
Very well said, Coolhand.
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Originally Posted by TKramar
I won't ever have that problem. I'll induce a miscarriage if I have to...but no woman I'm with will deliver my child.
You know, you've said some really crude things in the past ... but this takes the cake. Wanting the woman you're with to have an abortion or simply not wanting children is one thing; wanting to deliberatly take the life of an unborn child - and risk the health of the mother in the process - is quite another.
I just wonder how his readiness level changed so dramatically in a year... He just didn't want to marry the first woman. That's about it.
Like many men who are responsible, he was giving the relationship time to see whether it would work out before committing to something permanent. Perhaps she sensed that he was not enamoured with where it was going and tried to force a premature decision. Then later he found the right woman and was now ready for kids.
Too bad she used this to try to entrap him. Just another example of how bad it is for good men now days. All the responsibility and absolutely no control.
I suppose that he could be like me and have no sex with them - since I didn't want them to think I just used them. Of course, then he would be at best be considered "odd" and perhaps far worse.
Like many men who are responsible, he was giving the relationship time to see whether it would work out before committing to something permanent. Perhaps she sensed that he was not enamoured with where it was going and tried to force a premature decision. Then later he found the right woman and was now ready for kids.
Too bad she used this to try to entrap him. Just another example of how bad it is for good men now days. All the responsibility and absolutely no control.
I suppose that he could be like me and have no sex with them - since I didn't want them to think I just used them. Of course, then he would be at best be considered "odd" and perhaps far worse.
Face it guys. You can't win!
I call BS! Anytime you CHOOSE to have sex, you should be willing to take on the consequences that come along with it....at least that's what mature adults do. No such thing as trapped. He is a grown man and should know how the brids and bees thing works!
Let me see if I understand this, a woman gets an abortion it's her right that she did not want the child, a man does not want to see the child he did not want and he is wrong..
Is there a double standard in there some where?????????
Sounds to me as you ladies want it both ways!!!!!!!!
Hence why men should NEVER trust any woman they intend to do. If they're stupid enough to do that, they're stupid enough to get on the hook for it.
Doctors don't go to prison for ridding a person of a parasitic growth. Why should I?
TKramar, I am sorry for whatever happened in your life to leave you so bitter.
There is good in the world and nothing more good, pure and innocent than a child.
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No such thing as trapped. He is a grown man and should know how the brids and bees thing works! 
