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Everybody's got their own personal definition for what fidelity entails, but for me, if you're with me, I expect that I will be the person you are most intimate with. This goes for physical intimacy, and it goes for emotional intimacy. If my guy has an emotional relationship ongoing with somebody he interacts with online, I'm not sticking around, I don't care if they never meet, never speak, never even see a picture of one another. Why should I? If I were "the one" for him (and he for I), he wouldn't be looking for games to play online. If I'm not "the one" for him and he's not the one for me, what's the point? Buh-bye.
she even went as far as to send a video of herself
Looked at it as an "Innocent game"
Seems like it went from just 'hot talk' to a video, and that it's just a innocent game yet she keeps it a secret from her husbend. Shouldn't this be sending enough bells ringing?
Exactly! Some people are clueless, or either in deep denial.
I don't care what other people do, but I wouldn't stay with somebody engaging in such behaviors while we're supposedly together. As a matter of fact, I wouldn't be on a forum such as this one if I were married.
Yes I agree. If you're married or dating, you need to do all you can to protect the relationship, and that means cutting out certain aspects of "entertainment" that could cause trouble later on. So for example, some relationship experts recommend that couples shut down their facebook/myspace page; I happen to agree.
People use the excuse, "ohh, it's a great way to stay in contact with friends (and I use "friends" loosely) but why not use the internet time to talk with your spouse?!
Anyhow, there is no reason why a married woman/man need page of themselves with pics posted up for a bunch of single horny people to see. It's just a matter of time, when say, a married woman is going though some hard times with her husband and she mistakenly finds solstice in some male stranger online; that's where all the side romance/infidelity starts.... ... ....
Oh-oh! You meant I'd be a bad influence on married women?!
Nope! Didn't mean that either.
I'm tired and stuffing my face with banana choc chip scones so distracted and probably not making a whole lot of sense but the gist of it is that I value those I consider my cyber friends and figure that it's only a matter of time until they're not only cyber friends anyway (BUT ALSO friends I have met in RL) so whether I'm married or not, they're my friends. I have never been one for "picking up" on the internets anyway DESPITE how it might look from how things turned out.
And anyway AS IF you could be a bad influence on anyone.
And anyway AS IF you could be a bad influence on anyone.
I know! What an outrageous thought!
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