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ok, so this morning he gets back to me and basically says, " OK, bye then if thats what you want, but I think your being a little rediculous..."
So what in the heck is THAT supposed to mean???
I think he's trying to make you feel like you're overreacting. He's probably way more experienced with one-nighters than you are, so he probably really thinks it's no big deal.
Kind of sounds like an a-hole, but we've not heard his side of the story.
Just chalk up the whole experience to a learning exercise: casual sex isn't for you. It works for him, it doesn't for you, and that's it. Nobody did anything wrong. If you put yourself in the same situation in the future, I'm going to have to say its your fault... right now you've learned something valuable about yourself, so be glad for it and learn what you can.
ok, so this morning he gets back to me and basically says, " OK, bye then if thats what you want, but I think your being a little rediculous..."
So what in the heck is THAT supposed to mean???
It means that now he's bored/horny and wants his booty call, all the while trying to pretend like he cares and make you feel guilty for cutting him off.
It means that now he's bored/horny and wants his booty call, all the while trying to pretend like he cares and make you feel guilty for cutting him off.
hrmmmm, so if I am a booty call I am aloud to be neurotic then, and he'll still let me use him for the sex thing???? Isnt acting like a weirdo a turn off?
I think I wanna turn this around and be the one using HIM for sex then....meanwhile I could date other people and NOT act neurotic, because I wont be so sex starved anymore..... I am just trying to convince myself of course.....
I think I wanna turn this around and be the one using HIM for sex then....meanwhile I could date other people and NOT act neurotic, because I wont be so sex starved anymore..... I am just trying to convince myself of course.....
If you think you can handle that without getting attached, then go for it. Keep in mind it's a win/win for him, from the sounds of it he's gonna keep you around when it's convenient for him, and push you away when it isn't. If that's okay with you then get it awwwn
I think he's trying to make you feel like you're overreacting. He's probably way more experienced with one-nighters than you are, so he probably really thinks it's no big deal.
Kind of sounds like an a-hole, but we've not heard his side of the story.
feels like he dosent want me to say goodbye, and just get back together? I am so lost and confused....lol
See, neurotic, its what happens when you dont let yourself have sex for five years because you wanna be the good girl.....now I am seriously questioning my theory there.
Well you obviously spooked this guy and chances are he's lost interest. So you showed your ass on this one. Lesson learned. One nighters aren't for you. Don't beat yourself up over it, and don't over analyze. If you're ready for a relationship then persue one, but I'd avoid the strictly physical stuff if I were you, it doesn't sound like you can handle it.
Just chalk up the whole experience to a learning exercise: casual sex isn't for you. It works for him, it doesn't for you, and that's it. Nobody did anything wrong. If you put yourself in the same situation in the future, I'm going to have to say its your fault... right now you've learned something valuable about yourself, so be glad for it and learn what you can.
I think I can cut off the emotional part now for the sake of the sex part, since I dont want to give up the sex part yet either...... Or am I just fooling myself????
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