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Old 04-12-2010, 09:41 AM
 
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Hi!
I have a problem: my girlfriend and I agreed to go to her family social act. (For her was very important that I go with her). The problem is that I have a concert the same day. She argued with me about her act was put the date before than mine. My mother and my friends said to me that I should go to my concert but I don't know what to do.

Thank you.
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Old 04-12-2010, 09:48 AM
 
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More details, if you kindly would.

What, exactly, is her family's "social act?" You mean activity? Is it a wedding or something? Is she in a wedding party?

And what do you mean by you "have" a concert? Are you performing? Or is it something you bought tickets to? If you bought tickets, did you buy them before you agreed to go to her family function?
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Old 04-12-2010, 09:55 AM
 
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Ok.

Social act: her niece makes one's first Holy Communion.
I am a composer, and one work of the concert was composed by me, it is a premiere, performed by some choirs.
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Old 04-12-2010, 10:07 AM
 
Location: NYC
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Ok.

Social act: her niece makes one's first Holy Communion.
I am a composer, and one work of the concert was composed by me, it is a premiere, performed by some choirs.
Were it me, I would choose your concert, hands down.
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Old 04-12-2010, 10:19 AM
 
Location: St Thomas, US Virgin Islands
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Were it me, I would choose your concert, hands down.
Me too!
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Old 04-12-2010, 10:25 AM
 
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Me three!

See if there is any way you can meet up with them later as a compromise. This is extended family and has secondary precedence over something like this.

Last edited by Thursday007; 04-12-2010 at 10:33 AM..
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Old 04-12-2010, 10:46 AM
 
Location: NYC
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Honestly, unless she is an extremely religious person I'd question her true feelings about you. Hearing a piece of your work performed is a very big deal in my opinion.
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Old 04-12-2010, 10:47 AM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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How long have you and your girlfriend been together?
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Old 04-12-2010, 10:57 AM
 
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I agree with us, but she said to me that when something happens like this, I leave her in a second place, and that I do not fight for us, for the couple. I understand her.
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Old 04-12-2010, 10:59 AM
 
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How long have you and your girlfriend been together?
We have been together for 2 years.
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