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So a girlfriend & I were watching that show What Chilli Wants (on VH1) & we both came to the conclusion that this chick is waaaay too picky. I mean, she literally said she wanted a guy who "don't smoke, don't drink, has to have a big package, not eat pork, be God-fearing, want kids, etc." Missy Elliott told her to "date Jesus or one of his disciples". I understand that if you need to have all of those requirements, you need to be bringing something to the table as well. Myself, I exercise, I'm cute & I'm about to graduate from college, I mean I'm not "fugly" LOL.
Haha, anyways that episode inspired us to make lists on what we wanted in a man. Here's mine & I want to hear y'alls thoughts on it & also, what makes it difficult to "find" guys like this...even if you're not looking
In no particular order,
must like kids & animals (dogs)
family-oriented (but no mama's boys please LOL)
hard worker
would prefer for him to be a Christian
taller than me but not too tall (5'10-6'2 is ideal but again I'm not freaking out about this LOL)
good sense of humor & has to laugh @ my corny jokes
has to have his "guyfriends" that he hangs out with
good communicator & interested in news, current events, etc.
I really like the "man's man"--like the rough around the edges kinda guy, the kind that knows how to fix a tire & likes sports hehe. But yeah that's it, as far as personality go. Looks aren't huge to me. I'm black so race isn't a deciding factor, as long as he's not "overweight" then I won't press charges haha.
Thoughts anyone?
Are you STILL having issues with getting a guy and still a virgin?
I think the list or any list can be picky if you are too young. Outside of his sense of humor and height , most of those things can come with age. You are prolly too young to have gone to a class reunion of ten or fifteen years and become amazed that the class pot head is a CEO now.
Are you STILL having issues with getting a guy and still a virgin?
She's not actually a virgin, she just plays one in the Relationships forum. But she accidentally let her guard down in this post in a different forum.
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