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Old 05-23-2010, 02:04 PM
 
Location: NH
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For me, the sex for money or whatever ads are purely entertainment. It's sort of like watching a car crash scene, you can't look away even though you should. I can't believe some of the things I read on craigslist.

I have looked at the ads before , maybe once a year or whenever my mind is curious enough. It is purely for psychological reasons; I am sincerely intrigued by what other people are thinking!!!

If asked by my fiance, I would tell her it was curiosity, and not lie about it. If your fiance is the same way, he will be honest about it.
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Old 05-23-2010, 02:49 PM
 
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O.k.

Here's the "funymann's" take on this...

You peoples is cra-zy!!

There is something wrong with the OP.

Some kind of insecurity. Something that is making her think things.

You know, I have put things in people's minds just to get back at them. Some crap they say to me I say back. Like, "Oh you want to do that so you can do this." Yeah, it works good since they never in a million years would have thought of it.

So, really, if this petty garbage is really going to eat a hole in your panties then you are not ready for marriage. Seriously. Next you will bash him for sneaking a peak at the hot girls on the magazines when checking out at a supermarket.

Get over yourself and do a self-examination.

Over and out...
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Old 05-23-2010, 03:11 PM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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Hello, I recently found out that my fiancee looks at personal's "wanting sex" ads in our area on craigslist. Is this normal, is he just looking?
I have looked at them too, just out of curiosity and boredom. You are worrying about something insignificant.

But it depends on your guy's personality. For me, buying pu$$y is terribly against my social status and class. It's absolute ghetto behaviour and I'm a dude who thinks even shopping in places like gap or burlington coat factory terribly affects my social standing. Buying pu$$y online depends on individual personality. Some men can't lower themselves to that level, some men can
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Old 05-23-2010, 03:35 PM
 
Location: California
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OP, if you and you're husband-to-be can't communicate openly about anything and everything, I would reconsider this marriage. He's hiding something from you and you are too scared to ask him about it? It doesn't matter what the thing he's hiding actually is, it just seems all together dishonest. I wouldn't care if my boyfriend looked at those craigslist ads but he would be like "hey, hun, I found something really entertaining online!!"...obviously this is something you aren't okay with or else you're man would have been open about it in the first place. You need to talk to him.
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Old 05-23-2010, 06:21 PM
 
Location: Vero Beach and Detroit
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who doesnt have an email address...? Especially someone who's capable of using a computer.. weird.
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Old 05-23-2010, 06:28 PM
 
Location: Wyoming
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... He's hiding something from you and you are too scared to ask him about it? It doesn't matter what the thing he's hiding actually is, it just seems all together dishonest.
Whatchoo talkin 'bout, Willis?

How is he "hiding something"? Because he didn't mention it to the OP? Did I miss something? Surely we can't be expected to report everything we read to our partners. I probably read 6-8 hours a day. Since I read faster than I can talk, it would take me 16 hours to report all of it, and then I'd forget something and be accused of "hiding something". Or did I miss something?
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Old 05-23-2010, 07:52 PM
 
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Wait... The ads are pretty graphic :

I want to put my hoo hoo in your love box . My breastsssss are 38 DFF so lets meet up in the park restroom ....Oh wait ...those are the male/male ads...sorry , lol....
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Old 05-23-2010, 08:03 PM
 
Location: Ohio
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Hello, I recently found out that my fiancee looks at personal's "wanting sex" ads in our area on craigslist. Is this normal, is he just looking?

I doubt if he's window shopping.LOL

If you haven't figured out by now why he's reading them then maybe he's not the right man for you and you should break off with him.
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Old 05-23-2010, 09:12 PM
 
Location: An overgrown 350K person suburb of Saint Paul
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He's probably too cheap to pay for circus tickets so he looks at M4W and W4M instead. I know I do, it's kind of entertaining to see what kind of people use the same site to buy used lawnmowers, old laptops, etc.

So far, the ones that are the most entertaining are the flaky, superficial women who have the long laundry list of "requirements". It reminded me why I quit looking for a quick lay or a hot body and started going after the good housewife type.
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Old 05-23-2010, 10:16 PM
 
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I don't have anything to do with craigslist (too skeevy for me), but I do love reading the perverted want ads in our local alternative paper. Some of them are just too funny not to look at.

All you can do is ask. Or put your own ad up that will draw his attention.
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