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Old 06-16-2010, 02:18 PM
 
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2Mares,
Relying on one line jabs now, eh?

Naaaah, I already said over and over what I find to be nice.

What can I say? Good for you to be in the receiving end .
No, just tired of your whining about "chivalry" and insinuating that all western women expect this and that and why dont women pay for my drink and open doors for me and pull out my chair. What you describe as being nice or equitable is actually very common in relationships. You assume all women are "on the receiving end" which to me translates to one-sided relationships when in reality most healthy relationships are give and take. You belittle traditional relationships (xxxbabeechicks for ex.) because she dosnt work and dont give her any credit for her role in the relationship. Men, im told, actually very often prefer this type of relationship and value the support and contributions of their partner.

As for me personally, I guess you can say I have been on the receiving end, of what Im not always sure.
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Old 06-16-2010, 02:40 PM
 
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No, just tired of your whining about "chivalry" and insinuating that all western women expect this
Do you think I am making this up? How about when women keep saying all men want is sex?

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As for me personally, I guess you can say I have been on the receiving end
Nothing wrong with that. That's just how it is I guess.

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of what Im not always sure.
Aw shoot! Well...what can I say? lol
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Old 06-17-2010, 11:35 AM
 
Location: Astoria, NY
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You belittle traditional relationships (xxxbabeechicks for ex.) because she dosnt work and dont give her any credit for her role in the relationship. Men, im told, actually very often prefer this type of relationship and value the support and contributions of their partner.

Actually, I work full-time AND take care of the household. Of course, in onihC's eyes, that amounts to nothing, even though he's probably done nothing remotely comparable in his lifetime, while I'm only 24.
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Old 06-17-2010, 11:55 AM
 
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Actually, I work full-time AND take care of the household. Of course, in onihC's eyes, that amounts to nothing, even though he's probably done nothing remotely comparable in his lifetime, while I'm only 24.
Didn't you say before that he takes care of all the bills, you live in HIS house, takes care of all dating expenses, etc. and you get to smile at him, a pat on the shoulder, and maybe a meal when he comes back? We talked about this before.

You are only 24. You have the potential to do way more than just rely on men for your needs. We're not that far apart when it comes to age .
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Old 06-17-2010, 12:01 PM
 
Location: Astoria, NY
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So now you suddenly got a job? Didn't you say before that he takes care of all the bills, you live in HIS house, takes care of all dating expenses, etc. and you get to smile at him, a pat on the shoulder, and maybe a meal when he comes back? We talked about this before.
I didn't 'suddenly' get a job, perhaps you have reading comprehension issues. I mentioned in my first post that I work full-time, I've been working for the same chain for years. Most people (I guess that are not part of the he-man women haters' club) would ask, why is he retired, and sits at home all day while you work full-time, cook and clean?

So he pays for drinks and dinner when we go out? He has the way lighter end of the yardstick, and that's why he's happy.
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Old 06-17-2010, 12:19 PM
 
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Actually, I work full-time AND take care of the household. Of course, in onihC's eyes, that amounts to nothing, even though he's probably done nothing remotely comparable in his lifetime, while I'm only 24.
Sorry, I guess I was basing that on onihc's preceptions. You know the way he kept going on about how your SO took care of all the bills and how you had it made.
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Old 06-17-2010, 12:21 PM
 
Location: Astoria, NY
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Sorry, I guess I was basing that on onihc's preceptions. You know the way he kept going on about how your SO took care of all the bills and how you had it made.
Yeah. You can see how much his ways of viewing things are grounded in reality.
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Old 06-17-2010, 12:23 PM
 
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Do you think I am making this up? How about when women keep saying all men want is sex?
I think your blowing it out of proportion. Especially when you go on about ALL women expect blah blah. It just is not true. At least on this planet.

No, sex is not all men want, they also want a sandwich.
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Old 06-17-2010, 12:25 PM
 
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Yeah. You can see how much his ways of viewing things are grounded in reality.

It is sometimes mind boggling.
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Old 06-17-2010, 12:26 PM
 
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I think your blowing it out of proportion. Especially when you go on about ALL women expect blah blah. It just is not true. At least on this planet.

No, sex is not all men want, they also want a sandwich.
While women say all men want sex and are dogs, have a guy say all women want is a guy's money and the freebies that come with having a guy and they won't like it.

So men want sex and a sandwich, eh? hahahaha! good one .
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