Young man, flee from the woman and do not look into the seas lest you drown.
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25I directed my mind to know, to investigate and to seek wisdom and an explanation, and to know the evil of folly and the foolishness of madness.
26And I discovered more bitter than death the woman whose heart is snares and nets, whose hands are chains. One who is pleasing to God will escape from her, but the sinner will be captured by her.
27"Behold, I have discovered this," says the Preacher, "adding one thing to another to find an explanation,…
13Folly is an unruly woman;
she is simple and knows nothing.
14She sits at the door of her house,
on a seat at the highest point of the city,
15calling out to those who pass by,
who go straight on their way,
16“Let all who are simple come to my house!”
To those who have no sense she says,
17“Stolen water is sweet;
food eaten in secret is delicious!”
18But little do they know that the dead are there,
that her guests are deep in the realm of the dead.
A man has sex when he is young and he becomes a king from that time on. If he is given to it, then he becomes extremely big headed the likes of which cannot be explained or related to a woman. He is sitting on a throne and he is so proud of himself and because he liked it so much, he just might do it again because what could be wrong with something so natural?
If he is a good looking young man with money, then maybe he decides that he will have them all, and this is good to the king for a time.
When I was 16, I had money and brand new cars, Cadillacs, cougars, and every girl belonged to me. I must have been the worst person who ever lived, a pure jerk born with a silver spoon. I decided that I would kiss all the girls and date all the girls and if any of the girls didn't like it, they didn't have to kiss me. Dated a different chick every single night until I married the prom queen.
Went through a horrible marriage, got divorced and decided that I hated women.
I began dating a different woman every single night, sometimes maybe 10 women a week, and if one is so natural then it's all good right?
But when you start getting old, those regrets begin to build because with every single interaction comes consequences whether you are trying to hurt someone or not, sleeping around has consequences. BIG CONSEQUENCES! Maybe I am not like most men but I am riddled with regret to the point of denying myself a relationship with anyone for the past 15 years because I am so ashamed at just how many hurt people are left behind me, broken hearts to broken homes. I have been in fear of my past misdeeds so much that I spent years just trying to find people to beg for forgiveness.
I would tell a young man to never have sex, to never get married but that's just me.
That's not gonna happen with most men, and the best you could do is wait, and maybe you will be that one couple who defies the world, maybe you will actually find magic with one love and perhaps you will love him/her so much that you will feel you have cheated on them before you ever knew them and perhaps you have.
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