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Originally Posted by themosthigh
Both. I found this room on craigslist and just sign dude a check every month. It's a condo building where some people own but the majority are rented by a leasing company who bought most of the units during the economic collapse. I figured I'd be able to use my roommate as a reference since I've been signing checks to him every month with Rent in the memo. No?
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The issue is determining whether or not you've made a good faith effort to comply with any rental requirements set forth by the property owner.
Does your current roommate own his condo? Perfect. Those checks show you've made a good faith effort.
Does your current roommate rent from the leasing company? Then these checks may be harmful. Most leases include clauses which require the disclosure of any changes in occupancy information regardless of financial responsibility. (Many require written notice/approval for such changes as well).
While you didn't sign the lease,
it could look like you failed to make a good faith effort to disclose this information to the property owner (or management company).
Start by tactfully trying to figure out your roommate's current occupancy arrangement (own/rent). If you're considering using your roommate as a reference ... It should be as easy as asking.
If the roomy claims to own, it ends there. You're good to go. If the roomy claims to rent, ask a quick followup question to determine if the roomy told the management company. If the roomy claims to have told the management company then, again, you're good to go.
If roomy wont answer, or if roomy claims to not have informed management, then it gets tricky.
Coming out and telling the management company you've been living on site and undocumented for a period of time may have serious consequences (even if you've acted in good faith). Probably not a good idea at this point.
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The concern you're trying to address here is that you don't want a prospective landlord to think you are likely to allow undocumented residents at the property; or, that you may withhold occupancy information (changes) in the future.
Occupancy info represents a safety/legal concern many landlords will care about regardless of whether or not the rent is paid on time.
When you volunteer the information about your concerns, try to frame it in a way paints you as responsible and forthcoming. There's no need to say anything more than, "I've been paying rent to roomy according to a private agreement". If roomy agrees to be a reference, then you can include that as well. If they ask for proof, you can volunteer the check payment records.
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Last name info for your mother shouldn't be important. If it comes up, "Oh, yeah, her last name is xyz. Sorry for the confusion." should be plenty.