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Originally Posted by Bevil
thanks everyone for the invaluable advice...well, i called the man back and told him that we weren't interested...it just didn't feel right in my gut...my husband is really upset with me because he wanted this apartment...i liked the apartment too, but after he wanted us to drop a cashier's check off through a slot in the door with no lease, that was a deal breaker for me
now we just have until april 8th to find a place...i am getting scared, i don't want to be without housing
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Sounds to me like you lost out on a place because you don't understand professional rental procedures. Nothing you describe seems out of line from the property manager's standpoint. It's the same as we all do it.
First of all, there is no such thing as "interested" in a place, from a landlord point of view. You either want it or you don't. If you are not ready to commit, don't sign or do anything at all, period. It's real simple.
Once you do decide you want a place, you confirm that by providing an application and a deposit to hold the property. I don't and won't hold properties or even accept applications without deposits.
We get that request all the time:
Q: Can you hold it for us until I get paid Friday and we'll have the deposit then?
A: No. Call back Friday and see if it's still available.
Q: Can you run our credit and tell us if we are approved before we pay the deposit?
A: No. The deposit is required along with the application. When you are approved, you've rented the place and the application deposit becomes your security deposit. You then have two days to come in and sign the lease or you forfeit your deposit.
Landlords get ripped off and burned way more than tenants. Just check the small claims courts to see who has to sue who more often. It's not even close.
Frankly, when I run into highly suspicious tenants who want me to change how I do business just so they can feel better, I ask them to just move on and keep looking. I've been doing this almost 20 years. I've learned to stay clear of highly distrustful tenants because they are almost always going to cause trouble and be big complainers.
Not saying you guys are like that, and prudence and caution should be followed, but at some point you are either able to commit to the process or you aren't. I'd be more worried about dealing with someone who doesn't have a strict process that I would be worried about dealing with the guy you described.
Good luck.
Steve