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Originally Posted by davebarnes
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the only problem I have with bogleheads and I do love the site but it is really geared for the person who is super smart on investing. I signed up a few years ago and I knew nothing. well they are not really "patient" with newbies (just my opinions) now I admit my questions were probably kindergarten level questions but whew they were brutal, most typical response was "if you won't bother to learn about investing, you obviously don't care about your money" or some variation.
I read but I definitely don't post there anymore.
Anyhoo, op, here's my story.
My late husband was pretty much the financial "partner" in our marriage. Now I participated and knew pretty much what we had but as far as what to invest in and things like that, he loved it (MBA). So when he died I knew I wanted a financial planner.
I agree with Dave you have to do your homework but I disagree vehemently that they are all con artist out to take your money (I know dave you didn't say that but that is a very prevalent attitude).
Now I'm a research chemist so the thing I do know how to do is investigate. Long story short, after my wonderful old guy died 4 years ago, I know had to take a more hands on approach.
I have a FP who is part of the LPL financial services. They are independent FP that work with LPL as their broker-dealer.
So some of the things you need to find out
1) are you a fiduciary? meaning your interest come first.
2) how do you get paid? if they get commissions from products, pass
3) How will we work together?
4) do you have any complaints or lawsuits against you? check that out?
5) education background? are you a CFP? things like that
6) who is your custodian? some one else must be handling the money. never give any person the keys to the kingdom?
Go on line and google "how to chose a FA" or some thing similar, it will give you a ton of tips.
Now as I learn more and more I'm moving my money to more self invested things but I work well with my financial planner.