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Old 05-02-2018, 01:46 PM
 
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Took early retirement 15 years ago. Got a part time job for 5 years then I did volunteer work.

Last 2 years just doing exercise (run 3 miles a day) housework, computer research and surfing - have to keep busy or I have tons of Catholic guilt !!

Even at night I'm always crocheting something to gift someone with...
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Old 05-03-2018, 02:13 PM
 
Location: the Old Dominion
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Old 05-03-2018, 02:34 PM
 
Location: Central Mexico and Central Florida
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I disagree with the premise ....'do you have trouble slowing down..." As if people OUGHT to slow down. I am in the camp of, Use It or Lose It. The only people in my age bracket (mid 60s) that I know well that are having health issues are those who did SLOW down.
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Old 05-03-2018, 02:45 PM
 
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I cannot stand the word 'busy'!

As in 'how are you?'....'oh, I'm so busy!'

'what have you been doing lately?'......'I'm really busy!'

As in 'I keep really busy'.....or 'Keep yourself busy.'

And the word has been adopted by those who wish to try to impress others with their 'busyness' using it as a status symbol

the concept of being busy - articles exploring the concept of being busy in the U.S.
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Old 05-03-2018, 03:44 PM
 
Location: Nantahala National Forest, NC
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I cannot stand the word 'busy'!

As in 'how are you?'....'oh, I'm so busy!'

'what have you been doing lately?'......'I'm really busy!'

As in 'I keep really busy'.....or 'Keep yourself busy.'

And the word has been adopted by those who wish to try to impress others with their 'busyness' using it as a status symbol

the concept of being busy - articles exploring the concept of being busy in the U.S.
https://www.google.com/search?client...UTF-8&oe=UTF-8

Heehee....
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Old 05-03-2018, 07:25 PM
 
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No. After I retired I was able very easily to slow down. There's time now, time enough at last.
For some reason I'm remembering an old Twilight Zone episode by that title. Was it the one where Burgess Meredith finally had time to read and broke his glasses (and oh yes, there was that nuclear war)?
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Old 05-03-2018, 08:18 PM
 
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For some reason I'm remembering an old Twilight Zone episode by that title. Was it the one where Burgess Meredith finally had time to read and broke his glasses (and oh yes, there was that nuclear war)?
scary episode!
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Old 05-03-2018, 08:45 PM
 
Location: Spain
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I had no problems letting it all go, have no need for rush rush get anything done.
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Old 05-03-2018, 10:20 PM
 
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Forced to retire. Health. Past most of that and I find myself doing things around the house because I can't sit still for long. Sooner or later there won't be anything to do.

And then...
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Old 05-03-2018, 10:55 PM
 
Location: Ft Myers, FL
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I disagree with the premise ....'do you have trouble slowing down..." As if people OUGHT to slow down. I am in the camp of, Use It or Lose It. The only people in my age bracket (mid 60s) that I know well that are having health issues are those who did SLOW down.
Here's what I meant by trouble in the title that I tried to illustrate in the OP.

When I worked, I was always stressed out over all the deadlines and commitments. I felt rushed all the time. It was affecting my health.

Once I retired and lost the pressure, I still feel the need to hurry through everything I do, out of habit - even though I have nobody hovering over me to get the tasks done.

Don't get me wrong - I do have quite a busy life with many activities in retirement, but I still approach everything with that same feeling of "rush rush rush" habit I've had trouble shaking.

So I wondered if I'm alone, thus the question.
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