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But it neatly encapsulates the issues with these guys. Their standards in women aren't just unrealistic -- they are much higher than the standards they set for themselves. A lot of these people are just emotionally stunted people who willfully ignore their manifest shortcomings, blaming the opposite sex for all their woes. Because God forbid that they might think they are the problem.
What about the guys who are afraid to approach both the party girls and the decent girls? Because that is me .
That's kind of a separate issue. The OP's argument is that this kid in Santa Barbara was driven to mass murder by seeing gorgeous girls chasing after bad boys. Which is completely ignoring all the women who don't put on short skirts and high heels and go out partying every weekend. The women who have no interest in frat boys and jerks. There are plenty of average, awkward people who never approach and never get approached, but they manage to mind their own business and not go on shooting sprees.
There's also a creepy undertone that women should sleep with sad sack guys in order to avoid these kind of situations, as if a woman's vagina is a charity for the downtrodden.
Last edited by fleetiebelle; 05-25-2014 at 08:21 AM..
And it's the girls' fault that these less than 10s would only consider sorority chicks as their dating pool? How about girls who are attractive but not knock out gorgeous? How about the girls who aren't in the most popular groups ever and are normal cute girls? Do these losers consider them as dating material? No? Why not?
It's not that you weren't good enough, it's that you didn't know how to find a woman who would like you. They are out there, but finding them is hard for many of us.
I am a kissless virgin who is older than you, and I think you are being too hard on yourself. There is more to life than dating. Not being good at dating is no reason to cut yourself down like that.
As a 45 year old virgin I agree with this statement. I directed my efforts into photography and running. I work with a local photo arts group which helps me become better and better all the time.
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