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Yeah, she just seems a bit needy IMO. Might have to cut off with this one and try again..
This is why I don't understand why people like G8RCAT want girls that will approach them, for me it is unattractive as the chase is the best part!
I don't really value the chase. I don't see why it's unattractive for someone to approach you. I wouldn't mind it at all if it's a guy who's worth dating who approached me. I just don't expect it to happen that way.
Yeah, she just seems a bit needy IMO. Might have to cut off with this one and try again..
I don't get the problem, you seem to consistently want people to display uninterest in you. Expecting an instant response is a bit much, but won't it feel better has more interest and wants to talk than not?
I don't think apologising to replying to your texts late is needy, most people are on their phones constantly & so expect replies from texts asap. She is just being polite & wants to let you know that she isn't purposely ignoring you, nothing wrong with that...
If it does bother you that much then just say it's no problem, just reply when you can, seems a strange reason to stop seeing someone, just because they actually like you...
Oh no, it's not just that, this is quite a small thing, I have told her before to stop apologising but she still does it, but it's not really a massive issue..
It's more about other stuff she does as well, and things she's told a friend of mine about me, it just seems she's become attached quite quickly.. I know it may make me seem quite 'mean', but I'm still not sure about her and it is kinda scaring me how quickly she is getting interested! Maybe I'll just ask her to slow it down a bit, I mean she was even talking about going travelling and things next year together and we aren't even going out yet!
I don't really value the chase. I don't see why it's unattractive for someone to approach you. I wouldn't mind it at all if it's a guy who's worth dating who approached me. I just don't expect it to happen that way.
It's not always unnatractive for me, just sometimes when they come in a bit too strong and show too much interest.. I guess I just find it kinda fun to work for it a bit.. when it comes on a plate it seems a bit too easy in my opinion
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I don't get the problem, you seem to consistently want people to display uninterest in you. Expecting an instant response is a bit much, but won't it feel better has more interest and wants to talk than not?
Yeah, I mean it isn't just this as I said above.. I should have added that as well.. I just don't like girls coming on too strong and she is definitely doing that in other ways.. if I really like a girl then I will probably be texting her quite a lot, but until I really get to know someone, it probably wouldn't be like that
I once met a girl at a house party one New years eve. She was a nice girl and that, and she had the best 30 seconds of her life , but as I found out the following week, she was a bit mad.
I only saw her that once. But a couple of days later I'd been at work for only 5 or 6 hours, and I hadn't checked my phone once as I'd been busy. Anyway, at the end of work I checked my phone and I'd had nearly 200 missed calls, and something like 60 text messages!! She was completely bonkers, and definitely came on a bit strong!
I once met a girl at a house party one New years eve. She was a nice girl and that, and she had the best 30 seconds of her life , but as I found out the following week, she was a bit mad.
I only saw her that once. But a couple of days later I'd been at work for only 5 or 6 hours, and I hadn't checked my phone once as I'd been busy. Anyway, at the end of work I checked my phone and I'd had nearly 200 missed calls, and something like 60 text messages!! She was completely bonkers, and definitely came on a bit strong!
Lol, 30 seconds? That's great going
And bloody hell, I'd run away as fast as I could if that happened! That's nuts!
I remember a couple of years ago in my more immature days, I got with a girl when I was on holiday with some mates in Tenerife.. she got my number and texted me saying that I should come and move in with her almost straight away,
It's not always unnatractive for me, just sometimes when they come in a bit too strong and show too much interest.. I guess I just find it kinda fun to work for it a bit.. when it comes on a plate it seems a bit too easy in my opinion
Yeah, I mean it isn't just this as I said above.. I should have added that as well.. I just don't like girls coming on too strong and she is definitely doing that in other ways.. if I really like a girl then I will probably be texting her quite a lot, but until I really get to know someone, it probably wouldn't be like that
It has to be the right person though
Well, I'm not straight, so I can't get a good feel for whether or not a girl coming on too strong would be a turn off. It's just a different dynamic. But if it were an attractive guy with an attractive personality, he could come at me as strong as he wants, LOL. It would be hard to imagine not liking that. That would be like a dream come true right now. I definitely don't understand wanting to work harder for it.
****.. this piece of ****ing **** internet has been down for almost two hours. **** thunderstorms. The sun is back out. My phone is so used to me saying this that the next suggested work after the f word is 'thunderstorms'.
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, but as I found out the following week, she was a bit mad.
