Using the word "smarmy" (meaning, quote, dictionary)

[averysgore]

I've realized recently that I don't exactly know what the word "smarmy" means. When I hear someone use it, I always think they mean "smug" or "smirking," but I'm guessing the actual definition is a little bit different? But somewhat along the same lines?

For example, what would a smarmy musical artist be like?

(Yes, I've read the dictionary definitions, but it doesn't really help. I don't have the best intuitive sense of "ingratiating" either.)

[harry chickpea]

<said with an ingratiating smile>"Oh you poor dear thing. Let me help you with that definition, sweety. While I'm at it, let me butter your toast for you. I'm an expert at it, you know." As for musicians, you are likely too young to remember the style of Montovani. BTW, who is mayor of Avery's Gore these days?...

[oregonwoodsmoke]

It's more like sleezy. Someone that is being over the top to ingratiate themselves so they can take advantage.

It's often used for those creeps in bars trying to get something for free by charming the ladies and having absolutely no good intentions.

It's certainly not a compliment. I've seen "oily" used in much the same way. Does that help?

[Jen71]

Originally Posted by oregonwoodsmoke

It's certainly not a compliment. I've seen "oily" used in much the same way. Does that help?

But different from "oily bohunk" I think.

[robertpolyglot]

I learned the word smarmy in either 2001 or 2002. I remember the situation in which I heard it. From the context, its meaning was apparent. I then looked it up, and it said something like "oily, unctuous."

The person that was being described was a "snake-oil salesman." It is somewhat restrained sounding but realistically virulent insult. In this case, it really fit the person.