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Old 04-22-2015, 10:17 PM
 
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...was she a willing participant who later regretted her actions and cried rape?
Completely unconscious women do not consent to gang rape on the beach while others film it. The commentary in the video suggests she was drugged.
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Old 04-22-2015, 10:23 PM
 
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I'm certainly not blaming the victim here...
Actually, it kind of sounds like you are. We have enough facts to know that this was deplorable, and yet...

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I'm also not ready to hang these guys from the highest tree just yet.
Scary. I would not call myself a feminist, but sometimes I can see why women feel so afraid of men.
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Old 04-23-2015, 04:07 AM
 
Location: Poshawa, Ontario
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The same thing wouldn't happen to me. For one, even if I were a woman, I wouldn't be dumb enough to go to Spring Break to begin with. It is nothing but a week of sordid debauchery full of frat boys, attention w***es, raunchy parties, and the worst in human behavior. Nothing good ever happens there and yet flocks of young, dumb students and non-students go there each year to party like sodomites. If you accept certain risks, you have to accept there will be certain outcomes. I certainly wouldn't approve of my daughter going to a Spring Break party where 80% of the attendees are drunken animals of both genders.
Good lord. You don't need to go to a wild party to have someone slip you a roofie and sodomize you while incapacitated. The fact you seem OK with this happening to the victim because you disapprove of her life choices is just as disturbing to me as the crime itself.

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I'm certainly not blaming the victim here...
Actually, that is exactly what you are doing.
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Old 04-23-2015, 06:18 AM
 
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Actually, that is exactly what you are doing. [/quote]

It does appear that way.
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Old 04-23-2015, 08:49 PM
 
Location: Back in the gym...Yo Adrian!
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Too much projection from emotionally charged opinions. None of you saw the unedited video nor do you know for a fact she was drugged against her will. Some people actually lie about that sort of thing. Same way they lie about who they really are sometimes.
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Old 04-23-2015, 08:57 PM
 
Location: Central Florida
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Too much projection from emotionally charged opinions. None of you saw the unedited video nor do you know for a fact she was drugged against her will. Some people actually lie about that sort of thing. Same way they lie about who they really are sometimes.
I know, it's just boys being boys right? So what if she was passed out and multiple people were having sex with her. No big deal right?

I honestly think you are just trolling now. Nobody in their right mind is thinking this was consensual. This was complete rape on a girl who was unconscious. If you can't understand that I am guessing you are OK with what went on.
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Old 04-23-2015, 09:08 PM
 
Location: Back in the gym...Yo Adrian!
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I know, it's just boys being boys right? So what if she was passed out and multiple people were having sex with her. No big deal right?

I honestly think you are just trolling now. Nobody in their right mind is thinking this was consensual. This was complete rape on a girl who was unconscious. If you can't understand that I am guessing you are OK with what went on.
Relax hero, no one is going to give you a trophy for over-compensating. If you haven't got the mental horsepower to have a discussion without insults then maybe you should take the time to read the TOS, but of course you can't be bothered with rules and such.
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Old 04-23-2015, 10:31 PM
 
Location: where you sip the tea of the breasts of the spinsters of Utica
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There's a difference between blaming a victim and saying that people need to take some basic responsibility for their safety. It's not safe to walk alleyways alone in a big city at night, and you shouldn't do it. If someone mugs you, it's true that your are the victim and he is to blame for it ...... but you also should have known better than to be there at that time.

Groups of thugs (of any race) are pretty easy to spot by their behaviors ...... it doesn't make any sense at all to think they're really just sweeties acting tough, and actually women are drawn to them for that exciting element of danger. Quite frankly no woman should get drunk and stoned with such a group, even if they don't use rufies. Maybe she'll be fine and have some great sex, or maybe she will get raped or worse.
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Old 04-24-2015, 09:45 AM
 
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I know, it's just boys being boys right? So what if she was passed out and multiple people were having sex with her. No big deal right?

I honestly think you are just trolling now. Nobody in their right mind is thinking this was consensual. This was complete rape on a girl who was unconscious. If you can't understand that I am guessing you are OK with what went on.
There are reasons some men refuse to see the obvious horror in these cases. Hopefully those men live very far from me.
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